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Alice Evans on Lorraine

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Creamcrackersandricecakes · 11/11/2021 09:32

This poor woman is clearly in the middle of the most horrendous breakdown - who the fuck thought this interview was a good idea?

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Butchyrestingface · 17/11/2021 12:54

No you were being pedantic over their marriage length. It doesn't matter they have been together 20 years.

It's not 'pedantic' to correct someone repeatedly stating erroneously that that a couple have been married for significantly longer than they have.

And I'm not deflecting anything. I think her behaviour indicates an abusive, erratic and controlling personality. I'm glad he got away. A pity he didn't pick up his kids on the way out but possibly didn't realise just how badly she was going to unfurl in recent weeks.

These pom-pom wavers on Twitter are really not helping her and will be nowhere to be seen when the shit properly hits the fan, which is probably going to be sooner rather than later at this stage.

Pinkspecs · 17/11/2021 13:07

No I agree people egging her on will not help her.
I did see some really kind messages on her Instagram people had left this morning, encouraging her to get help.
Twitter seems more vicious, and actually her writing on there having to constantly fight against accounts that are trolling her will do her no good.
Especially the one creating memes about her.
I do hope someone steps in for her, although I definitely think women should be able to speak their truth this has got really bad and it's not going to end well for her.
She definitely needs a technology ban and to go away and recoup, with or without the kids.
Plan her new life and sort her head out.

LaLaLaDiDahLa · 17/11/2021 13:09

The fact that she’d publicly mentioned suicide on more than one occasion I believe, and is showing every erratic behaviour (up all night so she’s not fit to take the DC to school), and what’s she’s posting (asking people to find out damning stuff about the girlfriend) should surely be enough to instigate emergency MH intervention and an emergency custody hearing of the DC due to her MH.

I have utmost sympathy for her situation and don’t know what she’s like in RL but someone needs to step in immediately and it’s boggling that they haven’t before now.

AngeloMysterioso · 17/11/2021 13:11

The Alice that was in 102 dalmatians was so sweet/innocent and had girl next door vibes.. not the Alice we see now at all! Totally not against plastic surgery if it’s what people want to do with their own body but she looks completely different and it’s not even because she looks older. She’s like a different person!

I agree with a previous poster who said she has physically changed beyond what a few years and pounds might alter. I think her dominant, bullying and increasingly unhinged personality is showing in her face.

I didn’t really know what she looked like beyond generic attractive blonde but just had a google. Goodness… you’re not kidding!

Alice Evans on Lorraine
Alice Evans on Lorraine
Alice Evans on Lorraine
Iamdobby63 · 17/11/2021 13:13

@Bluntness100

And the children have been visiting him, th issue is what Alice permits th kids to do. He can’t just go and steal them, that’s not how it works. He’s going rhe legal route.
Have they? That’s good.. where did you see this?
TokyoDreaming · 17/11/2021 13:15

@AngeloMysterioso

The Alice that was in 102 dalmatians was so sweet/innocent and had girl next door vibes.. not the Alice we see now at all! Totally not against plastic surgery if it’s what people want to do with their own body but she looks completely different and it’s not even because she looks older. She’s like a different person!

I agree with a previous poster who said she has physically changed beyond what a few years and pounds might alter. I think her dominant, bullying and increasingly unhinged personality is showing in her face.

I didn’t really know what she looked like beyond generic attractive blonde but just had a google. Goodness… you’re not kidding!

Jesus that's some change!
WalkersAreNotTheOnlyCrisps · 17/11/2021 13:15

The kids have been visiting him, Alice mentioned the fact her 8 year old still liked going to his, even though there's no pool there, heaven forfend!

BarefootHippieChick · 17/11/2021 13:22

Jesus that's some change!

The first thing I see is the lips. My apologies to anyone here who may feel offended, but I really, really hate trout pout lips

PollyDarton1 · 17/11/2021 13:22

@AngeloMysterioso

The Alice that was in 102 dalmatians was so sweet/innocent and had girl next door vibes.. not the Alice we see now at all! Totally not against plastic surgery if it’s what people want to do with their own body but she looks completely different and it’s not even because she looks older. She’s like a different person!

I agree with a previous poster who said she has physically changed beyond what a few years and pounds might alter. I think her dominant, bullying and increasingly unhinged personality is showing in her face.

I didn’t really know what she looked like beyond generic attractive blonde but just had a google. Goodness… you’re not kidding!

Alice has been on Insta I think stating that IG made her get fillers and Botox to stay young and that he would threaten her with leaving unless she lost weight or kept to a certain size.

I can believe that. I had an ex who was massively critical about my aging and changing body. That is what I mean by saying I think both parties are toxic - I reckon IG whilst being abused by AE is definitely not a paragon of virtue and probably instigated and fuelled a lot of her tendencies. The difference is when together she would rein it in, probably under the threat of being left, but abandoned has massively kicked in her tactics.

BruiserWoods · 17/11/2021 13:43

He probably has spent the last 20 years believing he could do better and that has ground down her confidence. She is no more than her attractiveness score now, which is why she cannot cope now.

CounsellorTroi · 17/11/2021 14:01

Alice has been on Insta I think stating that IG made her get fillers and Botox to stay young and that he would threaten her with leaving unless she lost weight or kept to a certain size.

I have trouble believing anything she says quite frankly.

WalkersAreNotTheOnlyCrisps · 17/11/2021 14:04

I have trouble believing anything she says quite frankly

Me too.

LemonTT · 17/11/2021 14:09

Unfortunately AE hasn’t been speaking the truth. She has made any number of allegations that just simply cannot be true. Added to which no one has come forward to substantiate or collaborate what she is alleging.

I don’t know what IGs views are about objectification of women. And I cannot believe AE’s allegations about that. I have read what she has posted about women and it objectifying, misogynistic and degrading.

I don’t condone the comments on here that she is an unfit mother. I don’t see any evidence the children aren’t being looked after. Her emotional state and even her attempts at alienation wouldn’t get her judged unfit. The first can be repaired and managed and the second would warrant a judicial warning not removal of the children.

The case against IG when all the speculation, projection and lies are removed centres on his decision to post a picture that announced he was dating someone, several months after filing for divorce and even more after separation. People are going to have different views on the advisability of that. But he shouldn’t be prevented from being in a new relationship simply because his ex is upset or will kick off.

But ultimately AES focus on IG and BW stops her from solving the problems she actually has. She needs to think about her future and how she will live as a single mother approaching 50. She has to start again not fires all over her life that wont ever go out.

Newrunner29 · 17/11/2021 14:09

@Pinkspecs

"Should she think of her children? When shes ranting and throwing accusations around. Is that helpful for the children to have contact but said on twitter last night they shouldn't be with their dad like she should decide? Why would he need to talk to her? And if someone was being abusive about ur gf why should he communicate with her?"

She obviously isn't, she's obviously going through alot of shit at the moment, anyone can see that.
It happens to some people when something extreme happens in their lives.
She's a very broken person it's quite obvious for anyone to see. As I say she needs alot of therapy.
To go away somewhere to recoup.
Now seems to be the time for her to ditch technology and fix herself, I do hope she does that for herself.

He would need to talk to her to co parent with her.
They have kids so I think after 20 years of marriage if you aren't capable of even a simple conversation then you are doing wrong on your part and wrong by your kids.
She says he hasn't spoken to her for 10 months.
That's most of their breakup.
That's alot to take on someone just ghosting you like that after 20 years of marriage.

Anyway you are obviously seeing things very black and white on a situation that obviously isn't.
You pretend he hasn't done anything wrong when he obviously has in regards to the photo and caption and not speaking to her for 10 months, but hey ho never mind.
We are going a bit round and round in circles here.
So enjoy your day @Newrunner29

I never said he hasnt done anything wrong i said i have no idea what he has or hasnt done as he hasnt made anything public, i agree with ur first part . Also u said hes not done this , hes not done that again u dont know if he has or hasnt reached out to her. As its only coming from her what he has or hasnt supposedly done.

What im trying to get across maybe badly is that we cannot truely form an opinion on him as none of whats hes said or done is out there its just her interpretation which at the moment is clear she isnt thinking rationally or clearly. So its unfair to judge him on what she says only.

Butchyrestingface · 17/11/2021 14:10

Alice has been on Insta I think stating that IG made her get fillers and Botox to stay young and that he would threaten her with leaving unless she lost weight or kept to a certain size

He also hates everyone, including the cast and crew on his current show but mostly especially the kid playing his daughter, whose appearance and behaviour Alice lost no time eviscerating on Twitter.

Hmm

I noted she’s still followed by a few thesp types. Can only assume they’ve muted her account cos they sure aren’t interacting with her or liking her tweets

Cheeseandlobster · 17/11/2021 14:10

@WalkersAreNotTheOnlyCrisps

The kids have been visiting him, Alice mentioned the fact her 8 year old still liked going to his, even though there's no pool there, heaven forfend!
I saw this. She posted that he only had walls and no pool. She won't have a pool for much longer if she continues and it just shows how far off the mark she is. Her girls need calm and stability not a bloody pool
ExcaliburBaby · 17/11/2021 14:18

Her Twitter is absolutely appalling. She’s so far gone now. No one is going to be able to give her any advice at all without getting abuse.

Bluntness100 · 17/11/2021 14:40

Have they? That’s good.. where did you see this?

Alice posted a couple of days ago about how her daughter was going to dads flat, and she posted before that a few days, about how the kids went there happily but he had no pool.

amiafreakofnature · 17/11/2021 14:42

@Pinkspecs

As I say perhaps he should think of his kids too. The photo was totally nasty hes been ignoring her for the majority of their break up I believe. That's not being civil. I don't know why he's being totally absolved of blame by some posters, but never mind. Off to bed now.
But he's done nothing wrong so what exactly do you want to blame him for?
Bluntness100 · 17/11/2021 14:44

I was thinking about it, honestly if I was loan the temptation to respond for me would be so huge, I’d be all “fuck you you crazy eyed drunken abusive bitch this is why I left you”.

He’s playing the long game and going after the kids and keeping his council but god the self control that must take in the face of the constant abuse him, his family, his colleagues, his friends and bianca have taken daily, it’s almost inhuman. I’m honestly not sure I could do it. On that, hats off to him.

Bluntness100 · 17/11/2021 14:47

But he's done nothing wrong so what exactly do you want to blame him for?

Leaving her I think and then starting a new relationship a year later. For some posters this is unforgivable.

Pinkspecs · 17/11/2021 14:51

Bluntness and amia you clearly have trouble reading my posts thats twice now bluntness, I have said time and time again the picture he put up with the caption was cruel.
I literally won't respond to your posts again.
Pointless.

Enjoy your day and perhaps pay a bit more attention in future...

amiafreakofnature · 17/11/2021 14:52

Wtf did she change her Twitter bio????

WalkersAreNotTheOnlyCrisps · 17/11/2021 14:53

She changes her bio weekly.

Butchyrestingface · 17/11/2021 14:55

@WalkersAreNotTheOnlyCrisps

She changes her bio weekly.
If not daily. More regularly than she changes her own knickers, I suspect.

I thought today's update was a gem.