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Alice Evans on Lorraine

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Creamcrackersandricecakes · 11/11/2021 09:32

This poor woman is clearly in the middle of the most horrendous breakdown - who the fuck thought this interview was a good idea?

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Butchyrestingface · 19/11/2021 13:19

… And I don’t know if it’s WiFi gremlins in the works causing this (my signal isn’t stable) but I can suddenly no longer access her Twitter feed.

Bluntness100 · 19/11/2021 13:21

Bitchy have you posted on twitter on her feed or liked anyones tweets? She’s blocking anyone who likes a tweet she doesn’t like

amiafreakofnature · 19/11/2021 13:30

I can see it so it's maybe your wifi

Butchyrestingface · 19/11/2021 13:43

@amiafreakofnature

I can see it so it's maybe your wifi
It was my WiFi. Service now restored. I wouldn’t like or post on any comments, pro or against Alice. Wouldn’t give her the oxygen she craves.
Cocolapew · 19/11/2021 13:57

I agree, her Twitter still looked bonkers to me.
She's trying to get #TeamAlice tshirts printed, it's like the #MeToo campaign Hmm
And now she's jumped on a Mail comment which she sees as in her favour.

whateveritwilltake · 19/11/2021 14:11

Am I missing something? Alice is likening this to #metoo but as awful as it is when a husband leaves a wife for another woman, lies, cheats etc, it's not a criminal offence. Just what is she trying to highlight and change? Men and women have behaved like this for all existence and will continue to

sadeyedladyofthelowlandsea · 19/11/2021 14:43

No, her twitter is almost even worse today than it normally is. Really quite nasty. A lot of stuff has been deleted, but she's obviously in quite a state.

sadeyedladyofthelowlandsea · 19/11/2021 14:51

Random twitter person: They are the opinions of people away from Twitter…the GENERAL public. I do wish you’d speak to proper real life friends instead of gaining endorsement from random followers who have no vested interest in you other than to gain a like or a comment from a blue tick.

AE:' This is one of he shittiest comment I've ever received.

I have spent months and months crying on the phone o my girlfriends.

The people I know on twitter give me so much strength. Why would you take that away from me by insinuating it's all about a blue check?

Mean. Jealous'

Yep. Totally rational, and not in any way lashing out at anyone who doesn't stroke her hair & tell her how lovely she is...

Bluntness100 · 19/11/2021 15:33

@whateveritwilltake

Am I missing something? Alice is likening this to #metoo but as awful as it is when a husband leaves a wife for another woman, lies, cheats etc, it's not a criminal offence. Just what is she trying to highlight and change? Men and women have behaved like this for all existence and will continue to
Agree, and what makes this more difficult is she says he left her for bianca and lied about it. He says he left her because she’s an abusive alcoholic. Not quite sure which of those is true. Although clearly it does look more like him being honest based on her behaviour, which does appear both drunken and abusive on a daily basis.
fourminutestosavetheworld · 19/11/2021 16:23

So the man has a long affair, the wife is heartbroken and doesn't behave in the way society dictates - shut up, be dignified, think of the children - and he gets to roll his eyes and say 'see, that's why I had an affair.' I wouldn't - and didn't - air my personal distress so publicly but I don't really understand all the hate being levelled at her - if she needs it, let her do it.

Nicknacky · 19/11/2021 16:26

@fourminutestosavetheworld Have you read her Twitter?

NotMyselfWithoutCoffee · 19/11/2021 16:46

@fourminutestosavetheworld

Haven't been here long have you? Her twitter is mental and that's without half the cussing and accusations she's deleted.

Being a real good role model to her daughters, slagging their father off.

Gohugatree · 19/11/2021 17:29

fourminutestosavetheworld, there is absolutely nothing, nada, nowt, diddly to suggest he has had a 'long affair' with anyone.

Don't you think the gossip mags would have been all over it like a rash if there was any hint at all, especially with some of the stuff Alice Evans has put on social media over the last few years - anything to stir the pot.

Againstmachine · 19/11/2021 17:37

So the man has a long affair, the wife is heartbroken and doesn't behave in the way society dictates

Except there there is no evidence of an affair why do people keep saying this.

They split at beginning of this year and Ioan filed for divorce a few months later. If he is seeing someone now that no way means he was having a affair earlier.

Bluntness100 · 19/11/2021 17:41

@fourminutestosavetheworld

So the man has a long affair, the wife is heartbroken and doesn't behave in the way society dictates - shut up, be dignified, think of the children - and he gets to roll his eyes and say 'see, that's why I had an affair.' I wouldn't - and didn't - air my personal distress so publicly but I don't really understand all the hate being levelled at her - if she needs it, let her do it.
But there is no evidence of an affair, no leaks, nothing from on set. You’d think something would have come out if t was true. Especially as she’s claiming everyone knew.

As much as he might have had an affair, he also might just have started a new relationship a year after they split.

Onthedunes · 19/11/2021 17:47

@Againstmachine

So the man has a long affair, the wife is heartbroken and doesn't behave in the way society dictates

Except there there is no evidence of an affair why do people keep saying this.

They split at beginning of this year and Ioan filed for divorce a few months later. If he is seeing someone now that no way means he was having a affair earlier.

And if you believe that you'll believe anything.

She won't rest until he's admitted the affair was before August 2020.

Againstmachine · 19/11/2021 17:54

@Onthedunes

You have posted he definitely has had an affair before how do you know?

What I believe is irrelevant. Would you be saying same about Alice it is irrelevant.as all I have seen from your posts is you hate men.

Onthedunes · 19/11/2021 18:10

[quote Againstmachine]@Onthedunes

You have posted he definitely has had an affair before how do you know?

What I believe is irrelevant. Would you be saying same about Alice it is irrelevant.as all I have seen from your posts is you hate men.[/quote]
I think it's more like you hate me. Grin

Againstmachine · 19/11/2021 18:12

@Onthedunes

Alice is that you.

I don't hate you, I just think you keep posting untruths.

Butchyrestingface · 19/11/2021 18:30

And if you believe that you'll believe anything.

If you believe ALICE, you'll believe anything.

Northofsomewhere · 19/11/2021 18:50

From what I understand from this thread analysing AE social media is:

IG came back from Australia, behaved in a less affectionate way from usual, some time (weeks? August 2020?) Later he said he wanted a separation so moved into the spare room. In Jan 2021 he moved out the house and filed for divorce (not certain if Jan or March 2021?), AE and IG seem to have been mostly amicable at this point although AE struggling with the end of the relationship. There is no hint at this time AE believes there was an affair and that the breakdown of relationship is because IG no longer loves her and wants to be in a relationship with her.

AE seems to increase her use of social media and increase in irratic behaviour online possibly fueled by alcohol or MH decline. IG remains silent on the breakdown and any new relationships until Nov 2021 (?) Which seems to trigger a massive outburst for AE leading to very public online abuse of IG, BW and anyone else who she sees as being against her. This is also the first time she suggests he was having a long term affair and was potentially abusive during the relationship.

As a consequence of AE behaviour (I assume) IG is going for full custody of the children (rather than shared) as well as the house. IG and AE are able to communicate via an app that logs all correspondence but can also be accessed by other people involved in their divorce and custody arrangements. AE is refusing to use this but still insists that IG is refusing to communicate with her. From what I understand she has also refusing access to the children after contact has been arranged.

I know I'm probably missing a lot but as I understand it these are the key points. Basically, no evidence of an affair and there is no/little evidence of abuse on the side of IG or AE during the relationship however the behaviour of AE now is abusive. When IG chose to leave he took it in steps and has tried to keep lines of communication open between himself and his children and to an extent AE.

Onthedunes · 19/11/2021 18:54

@Bluntness100

But there is no evidence of an affair, no leaks, nothing on set...

And I wonder why, could it be people's jobs could be at stake, he is the leading wooden actor on Harrow.

I've seen couple of episodes and found some of the other cast members seem to be quite good, why they needed him as an import I don't know, anyway when filming ends and this particular bubble pops, there may be more openness and if someone does know, their profile will explode, just like Bianca's.

It's gonna be tempting for someone, like people say the truth will out.

Hopefully Ioan is telling the truth.

U2HasTheEdge · 19/11/2021 19:28

He may well have had an affair. I know very few men end a marriage without another woman being involved. Although with the way she is acting, I can also very much believe he ended it due to her behaviour.

If he did have an affair that still doesn't excuse Alice's actions now. She is harming her children and dragging everyone into this mess, without a care in the word for anyone else.

She seems like she must have been obsessed with him and I'm not sure if her actions are down to genuine hurt, or down to the fact that she is abusive and will do anything to continue to fuck with his life, even if she loses her children, or damages them along the way.

She needs to lay off the wine, look after her children, and get some self-respect. Being devastated and angry is a normal reaction to an end of a marriage, but this is something else.

Againstmachine · 19/11/2021 20:32

She seems like she must have been obsessed with him

If you go back to 2007 she was going crazy on his fanpage. So even then she was obsessed I dread to think how that developed over 13 years.

Bluntness100 · 19/11/2021 21:37

And I wonder why, could it be people's jobs could be at stake, he is the leading wooden actor on Harrow

Nah, anonymous sources are a thing, and they will have had crew members come and go over thr three years, peoole always talk on set.