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Alice Evans on Lorraine

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Creamcrackersandricecakes · 11/11/2021 09:32

This poor woman is clearly in the middle of the most horrendous breakdown - who the fuck thought this interview was a good idea?

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Bluntness100 · 15/11/2021 08:56

God , day off work, made a coffee, looked at the news etc then looked at what Alice was up to last night on twitter and was horrrified.

We are all rubber necking I think , it’s hard not to look at it, even though you know you shouldn’t. More people are saying this isn’t ok but her mad supporters are egging her on and loving it. They must know she’s basically publicly self harming and just not care.

She’s now accusing Loan and bianca of doing drugs, attacking anyone who disagrees with her, got her brother involved, revealed her nannies private health issues, and calls bianca the acrobatic Instagram Ho. And pretending it’s all under the guise of getting other women to speak out.

It’s spiralling down so fast I just don’t know where it will end.

KosherDill · 15/11/2021 09:11

I feel really sorry for her.

She's trashing her ability to work, have future relationships, etc. and for what? Ioan doesn't seem all that interesting or attractive.

Butchyrestingface · 15/11/2021 09:12

It’s spiralling down so fast I just don’t know where it will end.

Full custody for daddy, surely? I will think he is a terrible person if he does not attempt to extract his children from this forest fire.

Bluntness100 · 15/11/2021 09:21

@Butchyrestingface

It’s spiralling down so fast I just don’t know where it will end.

Full custody for daddy, surely? I will think he is a terrible person if he does not attempt to extract his children from this forest fire.

There is a custody battle going on, it was shared custody but she commented on Lorraine she didn’t know how often she’d get to see the kids, so suspect it’s moved to full custody,

She’s obviously fighting to stay in the house from what she’s said, and will want to keep a nanny, plus she wants spousal support for life, and is going to drag this out for years, but if this behaviour continues I just can’t see how she will get what she wants, she is not coming across as stable and no judge is going to think she is and is acting in the best interests of her kids. She must have been repeatedly warned by now

And if there is something like alcohol abuse involved, it’s going to make it even worse. She needs to get help but I don’t think she will.

Iamdobby63 · 15/11/2021 09:32

Problem is that she’s not listening to reason, people who very kindly try to tell her are quickly shouted down either by her or the followers who encourage this. She’s all over the place.

She needs professional help to help her navigate through this in order to achieve the best outcome for her or I fear she will step too far and will lose her children.

Againstmachine · 15/11/2021 09:40

I'm guessing the brother who she just introduced is just her tweeting under a different name.

BarefootHippieChick · 15/11/2021 09:43

@Againstmachine

I'm guessing the brother who she just introduced is just her tweeting under a different name.
I thought this. Her behaviour will probably end with a twitter ban if she carries on the way she is.
Againstmachine · 15/11/2021 09:45

Hopefully she needs a twitter ban for her own sake. And to stop the idiots egging her on, and calling any one trying to be reasonable a troll.

LittleMysSister · 15/11/2021 09:46

I cannot believe the amount of people on her twitter who are praising her and egging her on when she's clearly in a huge downward spiral. I am glad to see some people on there kindly telling her to remove tweets and step away.

As for custody, I can't see how he would get it unless her issues are more serious than just temporary heartbreak and obsession? Doesn't he work mainly in Australia and is currently staying in France, whereas she at least has a permanent base in America and she doesn't work to the extent he does. There is no way he could provide a stable home unless he drastically changed his ability to work.

Pinkspecs · 15/11/2021 09:50

I feel for her alot I couldn't see any posts where she was accusing her ex of doing drugs?
I think it's ok to talk about it especially after 20years.
I dont know why he posted a photo of him and his new woman with the caption he did if not to intentionally hurt her. It was really heartless.
I personally couldn't do that to an ex of 20years who ai had kids with.
Especially if they were struggling as she evidentially is.
It wasn't necessary and spiteful.

Bluntness100 · 15/11/2021 09:50

@Againstmachine

I'm guessing the brother who she just introduced is just her tweeting under a different name.
Well they have the same spelling issues. Someone did respond saying you’re not her brother you’re just drunk Alice posting under a different name.
Iamdobby63 · 15/11/2021 09:53

Yes I think it would take a lot for her to lose her children but she appears to be coping less every day and I don’t know where it will end.

LittleMysSister · 15/11/2021 09:53

@Pinkspecs From this morning...

Alice Evans on Lorraine
Bluntness100 · 15/11/2021 09:53

@Pinkspecs

I feel for her alot I couldn't see any posts where she was accusing her ex of doing drugs? I think it's ok to talk about it especially after 20years. I dont know why he posted a photo of him and his new woman with the caption he did if not to intentionally hurt her. It was really heartless. I personally couldn't do that to an ex of 20years who ai had kids with. Especially if they were struggling as she evidentially is. It wasn't necessary and spiteful.
Are you maybe not familiar with twitter, it’s the most recent on her feed?

And she’s not just “talking about it” she’s attacking repeatedly both loan and bianca, making terrible accusations, calling her a whore, and using the kids as weapons.

On the flip side he’s been separated a year from Alice, he’s allowed another partner, and if he didn’t announce it soneone would have leaked it.

Alice Evans on Lorraine
BarefootHippieChick · 15/11/2021 09:54

Well they have the same spelling issues.

Yes I noticed this too.

LittleMysSister · 15/11/2021 10:01

I just feel bad for her because every single thing she's doing is basically building up a case against herself, if he did want to pursue anything other than shared custody. Not to mention that she could actually be pushing him towards thinking he may have to, since she is being so erratic.

She is providing him with evidence on a golden platter with her constant tweeting, day and night. Not to mention the other media stuff.

SpookyScarySkeletons · 15/11/2021 10:11

Especially with this comment...

Can't find her brother either 🤷🏼‍♀️

Alice Evans on Lorraine
Bluntness100 · 15/11/2021 10:27

I just think it’s gone too far now for her to pull back, she’s completely down the self destruction route, it’s either going to end up with her being sectioned or loosing everything, possibly even in tragedy,

I don’t even know what you do when your ex behaves like this. I know plenty of women on here have been in abusive relationships and endured something similar, I can’t even imagine being loan and waking up every day to a new onslaught and knowing your kids are there with her.

None of us know what’s going on in the back ground as he is silent, but it’s clear something substantial and legal is.

ChequerBoard · 15/11/2021 10:31

She is really doing herself damage here. Far from creating a 'movement' for wronged women she is setting out a clear case of parental alienation and emotional abuse of her children. That's not doing women any favours whatsoever.

His lawyers will be having a field day with all this crap!

MorrisZapp · 15/11/2021 10:33

Is the 'brother' meant seriously? I thought she was kidding.

Yes, I hope there's an intervention soon as she seems to be spiralling. Hope the wine o'clock huns take ownership of their role here.

BringMeTea · 15/11/2021 10:37

To be fair poor Ioan could travel to where his children are. More chance of 'helping' them from the same city.

LemonTT · 15/11/2021 10:40

I think some people need to really think about how they are defending her. And I just don’t mean the cheerleaders on Twitter.

She is trolling, bullying and harassing at least two people. Nobody deserves this type of abuse. It is wrong and that needs to be unequivocal. Let’s be clear the people harmed by abuse are the victims and bystanders not the perpetrators. There is no excuse for abuse. It is never justified. The adage that he was wrong but “she deserved it”, is wrong even if you change the gender.

If you believe he deliberately provoked her with the one post and deserves what she has thrown back, then you also believe that she provoked him with the dozens of posts before that and deserves everything she now gets. It’s all nonsense and the equivalency is not there.

MRA groups must be rubbing their hands with glee with how she speaking out. Because the only cause she is promoting is theirs and that of the Aunt Lydia’s in this world.

Bluntness100 · 15/11/2021 10:42

@BringMeTea

To be fair poor Ioan could travel to where his children are. More chance of 'helping' them from the same city.
To be fair I think it’s difficult if you are contracted and also solely responsible for all finances, and if she won’t allow him access, which she is open about. I don’t think he needs to be physically there to take a legal fight, but I do think he needs to get an emergency custody order.

But how does that even work, he’d basically have to walk out of his job, risk being sued and he is liable to pay all the bills Inc the mortgage, school fees etc.

Fuck knows what’s going on legally in th back ground though, all we know is there is lawyers heavily involved, that her eldest child was interviewed about parental alienation (Alice alienating loan) and that loan has been trying to get the children therapists, making sure the nanny is present, that Alice agreed joint custody and then renegaded on it, but this is all what she says, he’s saying nothing.

Cocolapew · 15/11/2021 10:43

Do you think her more fevered supporters really believe that IG is sitting back doing nothing and his lawyers are happily waiting until Alice decides he can have a divorce?

Cocolapew · 15/11/2021 10:44

X-post of sorts Smile

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