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So sick of the constant stupid fireworks

613 replies

MrsKeats · 05/11/2021 19:25

When will they hurry up and ban fireworks for private sale?
Have 2 dogs shivering under the sofa. Huge bangs outside. What if you have a baby in bed?
Anti social behaviour if you ask me.
Take your kids to a proper display.

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Whinge · 06/11/2021 19:13

The reflex to ban everything someone decides they do not like is childish.

Where has anyone said fireworks should be banned? Confused

Making it so people aren't able to walk into a shop and buy explosives isn't the same as banning fireworks. There will still be public displays and those with a license who can be hired for weddings / events.

Keke94LND · 06/11/2021 19:14

I do think they shouldn't be open to just anyone buying them and setting them off in their garden, last week I got woken up at 6am to someone setting off fireworks!!

JesusIsAnyNameFree · 06/11/2021 19:16

Been pretty quiet here for Diwali and for bonfire night, but the dickheads seem to be out in force tonight. Husband doesn't want me to open the window and shout at them to fuck off. Might get a divorce.

balonsz · 06/11/2021 19:16

We've had Diwali and Guy Fawkes so tonight is what exactly...?

lots of the public displays in london are on tonight.

Whinge · 06/11/2021 19:16

@nordica

So could one of the posters saying "it's just one night a year" explain why this is the third evening in a row with nonstop fireworks around? 🤨 We've had Diwali and Guy Fawkes so tonight is what exactly...?
I can't believe you're asking. Grin Surely you set of explosives to celebrate the first Satuday in November when Bob lost his first tooth and Edith burnt the kids tea. It's tradition Wink
sleepycoffeemonster · 06/11/2021 19:17

I don't see why private sale fireworks should be banned but tight restrictions on when they should be set off ie fireworks night only between 6pm and 9pm, maybe new years eve.

As usual it the anti social dickheads that ruin something fun for everyone. I dont know why people cant be more mindful of others around them these days.

DickMabutt73962 · 06/11/2021 19:55

Some people have come from warzones, some of them have PTSD, some of those who do will be triggered by fireworks, many will not. Some children have sensory issues, many children love fireworks. The reflex to ban everything someone decides they do not like is childish.

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DickMabutt73962 · 06/11/2021 19:56

@nordica

So could one of the posters saying "it's just one night a year" explain why this is the third evening in a row with nonstop fireworks around? 🤨 We've had Diwali and Guy Fawkes so tonight is what exactly...?
Ok so 3 nights, all in a row. Not like it's 365 nights a year!
BackBackBack · 06/11/2021 20:09

@DickMabutt73962 fireworks have been going on where I live since October and will carry on until January. I wish it was just three nights!

DickMabutt73962 · 06/11/2021 20:10

[quote BackBackBack]@DickMabutt73962 fireworks have been going on where I live since October and will carry on until January. I wish it was just three nights![/quote]
Where do you live? From what date in October? Clearly that's not the norm

Notahandmaid · 06/11/2021 20:13

Two weeks for us on our estate. And last night I got back from the animal sanctuary where I was helping out (comforting the dogs) at about 10pm and fireworks were going off until gone midnight. I used to love fireworks but have started to hate them after the last few years of 'fireworks fortnights'.

TheChip · 06/11/2021 20:13

Its the norm where I live too. Not as bad as bonfire night, but theyre happening almost daily between October til Jan. Last year they seemed to never stop

Whinge · 06/11/2021 20:14

Where do you live? From what date in October? Clearly that's not the norm

It might not be the norm, but it's not exactly uncommon. It's been the same here. It's not every night, but it's been regular enough to notice and get annoyed by it. Since November it's been every night, and last night despite having 3 local displays people were setting them off constantly until 1am.

Willyoujustbequiet · 06/11/2021 20:17

@MrsKeats

Seeing as the entire thread is based around what people consider antisocial behaviour the comment was entirely pertinent and raised by another poster in any event Hmm

Maverickess · 06/11/2021 20:29

@sleepycoffeemonster

I don't see why private sale fireworks should be banned but tight restrictions on when they should be set off ie fireworks night only between 6pm and 9pm, maybe new years eve.

As usual it the anti social dickheads that ruin something fun for everyone. I dont know why people cant be more mindful of others around them these days.

There are restrictions on when you can buy and set them off, but they're completely ignored and therefore not working are they? Not supposed to be after 11pm or before 7am (12am bonfire night and 1am NYD) it's illegal to throw or set them off in the street or public places, it's illegal near buildings or fields that house animals. Even just on this thread there's countless reports of those things happening, they happen every year without fail, there's reports on my local FB of them being thrown at people and cars, it's quite windy here, which common sense would dictate is not a great time to launch something explosive and a fire risk into the sky in a residential area because you can't control the trajectory and where it lands - but still they are.

So yes, it's anti social and dangerous in some cases and the laws that exist aren't worth the paper they're written on because clearly they're not able to be, or there's no point in trying to enforce the laws we have that put the onus on people to be sensible and safe with them, therefore we need to restrict them getting into society in the first place, so they don't repeatedly end up causing misery, nuisance, fear, injury and damage when they inevitably fall into the hands of people who put their "right" to some "fun" above the safety of others, with the justification for that being 'Cats shit in gardens, dogs bark all year round' (so justifying 'punishment' of that and either ignoring or not caring that it's not just the dog that barks and the cat that shits in the garden that is affected) and 'its tradition, it's fun' - so are blood sports and fox hunting (fun for some people anyway) but we've come past that argument there because it's recognised that cruelty for the sake of fun isn't a good trait, and really blood sports and hunting only affect the animals that are being used/hunted at the time, they don't affect the range of people and animals that fireworks do, in the range of ways they do.

Either the laws we have need to start being actually observed, or that needs to be forced by ensuring that they don't get into circulation for the laws to be ignored in the first place.

BackBackBack · 06/11/2021 20:31

@DickMabutt73962 I'm in a northern town - not going to say where because I like my privacy online! But there are others on this thread who have also already explained that it's their experience as well.

I'm trying to point out that what's normal for your area is not necessarily the case for everyone else posting on here. If it were three nights a year I wouldn't be on this thread!

pinkksugarmouse · 06/11/2021 20:32

My elderly cat isn’t remotely bothered but a friends dog trembles in fear and cries whenever one goes off. Some animals have to be sedated but that’s even harder when they are being set off way earlier and well past the 5th.

As a child I remember having them in the backyard and my parents are so irresponsible it’s a wonder none of us ended up in A&E following their efforts. We were there a lot but not for fireworks.
At least then it was Bonfire night and if the 5th was on a weekday the closest weekend. Now they are set off all the bloody time. And some are horrendously loud. I am sure that domestic ones have gotten louder.

It’s about time they were only available for licensed events. And that wouldn’t have to be complicated or very expensive. Its just ridiculous that anyone over 18 can go to a supermarket for a loaf of bread and a box of explosives.

BackBackBack · 06/11/2021 20:32

Sorry, meant to add - date wise it's normally mid-to late October when the evenings start to draw in, as that's when the fireworks pop-up shops start to appear.

YukoandHiro · 06/11/2021 20:33

Baby is fast asleep. It's the 4yo they're keeping up. It's irritating, but on other years I've found it festive. Can you put your dogs in a room with some louder music on so they don't notice?

Notahandmaid · 06/11/2021 20:35

@YukoandHiro - I am at an animal sanctuary. There are 20 dogs here and 5 volunteers. Not all like the company of other dogs so we can't get them all in a room with music and someone to soothe them.

DickMabutt73962 · 06/11/2021 20:35

[quote BackBackBack]@DickMabutt73962 I'm in a northern town - not going to say where because I like my privacy online! But there are others on this thread who have also already explained that it's their experience as well.

I'm trying to point out that what's normal for your area is not necessarily the case for everyone else posting on here. If it were three nights a year I wouldn't be on this thread![/quote]
Yes but again, just because it's the norm in a few places to go on for more than 3 days doesn't mean there should be a ban everywhere

Notahandmaid · 06/11/2021 20:36

Forgot the 30 cats in the cattery.....

BackBackBack · 06/11/2021 20:36

@DickMabutt73962 so how would that work then?

DickMabutt73962 · 06/11/2021 20:38

[quote BackBackBack]@DickMabutt73962 so how would that work then?[/quote]
How would what work?

Notahandmaid · 06/11/2021 20:38

What @Maverickess said (very articulately).

The point is @DickMabutt73962 that it's happening in ENOUGH places for it to cause a lot of people and animals (not just domestic pets) misery. I've just seen a post on a group in Facebook about a horse that got spooked by a firework last night, jumped out of its field and into the road, and into the path of an oncoming car. The horse died and the car was a write off. Not an uncommon story sadly.

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