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To want to buy a few fireworks?

339 replies

Motherdare · 05/11/2021 11:01

I can’t find any anywhere! What’s happened? Has Bonfire Night been cancelled? I loved it as a child. I just want to get a few sparklers and Roman candles, some traffic lights and fizz pops. I’m not looking for a significant amount of gunpowder - not trying to frighten people’s pets. I don’t want to attend a public display. They’re too crowded and loud. I just want a little party in my garden with parkin and toffee apples.

Where are all the fireworks??

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girlmom21 · 05/11/2021 11:43

@DumplingsAndStew that's clearly not what the poster has said. Stop trying to create an issue where there isn't one.

JewelleryBox · 05/11/2021 11:43

@GreenTeaBlackCoffeeAndRedWine

Let's stop selling balloons too then
Yes that would probably be a good idea: they’re not great for the environment are they. Apparently you can get biodegradable ones but I don’t know how eco fried they actually are.
CorrBlimeyGG · 05/11/2021 11:44

Are all Hindus and Sikhs knob jockeys, then?

That's one heck of a reach.

(The people letting them off around me wouldn't even know what diwali is.)

NothingSafe · 05/11/2021 11:47

@GreenTeaBlackCoffeeAndRedWine

Let's stop selling balloons too then
Good idea! Pointless plastic waste.
DumplingsAndStew · 05/11/2021 11:49

@idontlikealdi stated that "some knob jockey" was setting off fireworks yesterday. Yesterday was Diwali, a festival that is regularly celebrated by Hindus and Sikhs setting off fireworks.

Of course, now it will be confirmed that the "knob jockey" and their group are well known by everyone, probably some junkie drug dealer on benefits, and obviously no way either of these religions, and was just setting off fireworks to be a knob jockey.

LemonLymanDotCom · 05/11/2021 11:51

If it was one night of the year it wouldn’t be too bad, but as other people have posted, that simply isn’t the case. Over 2 weeks ago I was taking my dog out for a wee before bedtime & we got caught in a firework fight across the estate between some teens. It wasn’t just the dog terrified. Then last weekend teens were shooting fireworks at cars driving by down the street, so I dread to think what it’s going to be like this weekend.

Really, there is no good reason to sell them to the general public, but at least they should make them only legal for sale to those 25 or older… and silent preferably!

Watchingyou2sleezes · 05/11/2021 11:54

@RichardMarxisinnocent

If you're a grown adult too thick to have worked out how to protect yourself from a few sporadic loud noises then...

That said,I appreciate that some conflict veterans can be very distressed by them so it's not for me to say how they could mitigate their individual exposure.

I'm not advocating the things, I've never bought one in my life.

Brainwave89 · 05/11/2021 11:58

A bit of tolerance is required on all sides here. I put up with my neighbours dog who regularly is out at 5.00 am yelping for all he is worth and waking everyone up. Equally pet owners need to tolerate a few fireworks from others.

idontlikealdi · 05/11/2021 11:58

@ClaudiaWankleman a midday when it's not even dark. That's just wankery.

idontlikealdi · 05/11/2021 12:00

@DumplingsAndStew don't be dense.

DumplingsAndStew · 05/11/2021 12:00

@Watchingyou2sleezes

If you're a grown adult too thick to have worked out how to protect yourself from a few sporadic loud noises then...

That's not fair at all. You have no idea why that poster might have a fear of loud, unexpexted noises! Angry

godmum56 · 05/11/2021 12:01

@Queenie6655

Hate them hate them hate them

Can someone start a petition to make them illegal

Just utterly pointless

Someone has, This year will be the 4th time (no debates during lockdown year) that parliament has debated some kind of firework controls due to the .give petition exceeding by many time the required figure of 100,000 signatures. Centre Parcs has no displays this year, they are doing a lit winter walk instead, and each year more supermarkets do not sell or restrict what they will sell.

here's the website, there is also a facebook page

DumplingsAndStew · 05/11/2021 12:01

[quote idontlikealdi]@DumplingsAndStew don't be dense.[/quote]
Wow, clever too!

godmum56 · 05/11/2021 12:01

argh fireworkcampaign.com

NothingSafe · 05/11/2021 12:03

It's not just 'one night a year' - they've been happening for weeks near me, including 2 huge ones being set off 10 metres from my house at midnight the other day. If it were specific dates and areas planned in advance - Diwali, Chinese New Year, Bonfire Night, NYE - at least people could plan for it.

Also, it's not just people's yappy dogs, is it?

It's people with PTSD (approx 4-5% of the UK population have PTSD, which is up to 3,350,000 people). Not all will be bothered by the noise, but many will.

It's (again, not all, but some) people with autism - apparently 700,000 people with diagnosed autism in the UK. Not to mention the other conditions that come with sensory processing issues.

Yes, it's also pets - approx 12 million dogs and 12 million cats in the UK, apparently (figures from the RSPCA said over 60% of dogs and 50% of cats show distress during nearby fireworks). And 51 million pets in the UK overall.

It's the approx 2,000 people each year who need hospital treatment for firework injuries, the vast majority of them due to people mishandling or underestimating the danger of fireworks at home, rather than going to a professionally organised display. Almost a third of these were children.

It's the toxic compounds used in fireworks released into the air when they're set off.

It's the litter left everywhere.

Firework shows that are professionally managed, safely, with set times and locations that people can plan ahead for - noise-cancelling earphones for people, calming medication for pets - and that are cleared up after themselves correctly, fine.

But there's no good reason at all that the UK public should be allowed to buy and set off explosives whenever they want.

JewelleryBox · 05/11/2021 12:05

@Brainwave89

A bit of tolerance is required on all sides here. I put up with my neighbours dog who regularly is out at 5.00 am yelping for all he is worth and waking everyone up. Equally pet owners need to tolerate a few fireworks from others.
That does assume that everyone’s dogs are out being dickheads at 5am though doesn’t it? Mine sleeps til 9 and doesn’t bark but still has to put up with fireworks.
HoldingTheDoor · 05/11/2021 12:07

A bit of tolerance is required on all sides here. I put up with my neighbours dog who regularly is out at 5.00 am yelping for all he is worth and waking everyone up. Equally pet owners need to tolerate a few fireworks from others.

What BS. My dogs are not out there yelping at any time let alone 5am so I reserve the right to complain about fireworks, and "a few" is it fuck a few! It can go on for weeks or more. Last year my neighbours a few doors away had fireworks that were so incredibly loud that I genuinely thought we were going to suffer damage to our hearing. It was physically painful and took some hours before I could hear properly. It's not ok to do that to your neighbours.

I'm autistic and they are completely overwhelming for me and really agitate me. It isn't just animals who suffer, though that shouldn't be dismissed either.

Banani · 05/11/2021 12:08

I’m glad a lot of places have stopped selling them, they should on,y be available for licensed displays.

I would also support a ban on balloons.

Worldwide2 · 05/11/2021 12:09

Tesco have a good selection and sell them in bundles

ChardonnaysPetDragon · 05/11/2021 12:09

My digs aren’t yappy.

I am fed up with being woken up at midnight or even later by bloody fireworks.

There is a huge environmental price on manufacturing and using the bloody things. I don’t see why I should tolerate that. Traditions change, some need to be brought into the 21 century reality.

godmum56 · 05/11/2021 12:09

if you want an eye opener and have a strong stomach google "firework injuries" The horse ones are particularly stomach churning

JudgeJ · 05/11/2021 12:10

@Rainywindoww

Fireworks are awful and should be completely banned for sale to everyone apart from big displays.

Well done Sainsburys for stopping selling them!

Well done Morrison's for not making a knee-jerk decision!
Parkin's made, the corned beef hash will be soon and the hot dogs too, just needs the grandchildren and someone brave enough to stand at the end of the garden to set them off!
HoldingTheDoor · 05/11/2021 12:10

I never understand why there's so little attention on their environmental impact. That's the Number 1 reason why they should be banned imo yet you hear so little about it, though the BBC do have an article on the effects on air pollution of the Diwali fireworks in Dehli. Of course it isn't the only issue that causes air pollution but it certainly contributes to it, on a considerable scale.

HoldingTheDoor · 05/11/2021 12:11

and someone brave enough to stand at the end of the garden to set them off!

You mean someone inconsiderate enough.

Viviennemary · 05/11/2021 12:12

Good. Fireworks should be banned.

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