Are you Autistic Youjustfolditin and trying to pretend in life that you are just the same as everyone else, thus live by the same rules, act the same way and are quite normal really ! In which case you are headed for one great fall, with your appraisal of life. It might not come this year or next year because you might be flying, at the moment but it will happen.
If you are not Autistic you are very ignorant, just using buzz words, you have read about without knowing what they mean or actually what Sensory Overload is or its effects.
Secondly Goddaughter scored 367 on the Kent 11+ test with scores of (122) Math's (122) English and 123 (NVR). Traditionally the required score for passing the Kent 11+ is around 360 with no one component scoring less than 120. Does that mean she scraped a pass ! However, if she did scrape a pass according to you, she most certainly was not a 'lucky loser' in gaining entry to her schools Sixth Form.
The, ''Grammar" school does not require a pupil to attain a single grade 7 to be admitted in to its Sixth Form . Goddaughter attained 4 grade 7's (though we have to question the validity of her grades, due to Covid and the formulas used to calculate the results) DD's Grammar school must be producing very 'lackluster' grades for a Selective educational facility. This, because her 4 Grade 7 GCSE's are only marginally below the average number of grade 7's that were attained/given (like sweeties) to their year 11 Cohort in 2021 (with the supposedly inflated and inaccurate grade inflation given this June to pupils results).
If you want to get in to who is a '14' GCSE grade 9 'Super Selective' type and its "Bullshit", well DD2 scored 420 on the Kent test and was distraught , because she lost 3 points on her English component. She felt it was not fair because her friend who is not of the same ability in Math's gained a full house of 423. DD2 could have gone to any Grammar school in Kent or to any of the four Independent Schools, that offered her a 100% full Academic Scholarship . In the end she chose the same 'bog standard' Grammar that her elder sister attends. DD1 scored 385 on the Kent test (Super selective, probably not though I could not care less)
This brings me on to say given Goddaughters Autism and SEN issues, 4 Grade 7's are equal to her elder sisters , results or whatever my DD1 gets and even if DD2 achieves '14' grade 9's.
Finally, I am currently writing a work disciplinary report about a 19 year old employed Autistic 'lad/man, that swore at a customer, last Saturday. The customer probably not older than 20 himself, was pulling faces and mocking my employee for the fact that he was obviously Autistic due to his mannerisms. The "bully" was poking fun at the poor teenager with his mate giggling . This because he was brushing the floor with a brush, so he must be a S* because normal people don't have/do such lowly jobs. This, lad is likely to be fired because the two "twats" have reported him with his name badge on to Customer relations, who have informed the Area manager (who should be me, but is not because my promotions lets say have been hindered due to my Autism).
This lad is unlikely, to find a job anytime soon or later, he only got a job when he walked in, because I was prepared to find something for him to do, he has been with the store 3 weeks !
Show some bloody sympathy and understanding towards Autistic people.
Finally I believe if her Grandmother, Mother, Me ,Husband and my Mother step up to the mark for Goddaughter and her baby, she will at least equal my 3 B grades @ A level.