I alter my behaviour by not speaking to new women until I sus then out better, because then if I don’t speak then they can’t really dislike me and if they do, then I know why. Not speaking until I know someone properly isn’t altering my behaviour, altering my behaviour would be acting like a totally different person, I like to hear how they are and what they speak of before I speak because I’ve been shat on too many times.
Men aren’t bitchy and toxic in the same way women are and that’s a fact, men are easier to get along with and it could also be the fact I’m one girl in amongst 5 brothers and I’ve always gotten along with boys better, obviously there is nothing like a good gossip with a female and you can’t get the same sort of chat with a man that you can have with a woman, but men are less judgmental imo.
I also don’t really care with what you agree with, like I’ve already said then toxic women are my experience of women and that’s how i came to this conclusion.
Just because you don’t think men aren’t less bitchy than women, then it doesn’t make it so, just like it doesn’t make it so that all women are necessarily toxic but it’s what I have experienced and it’s always in a work place and with so called pals.
My first experience of toxic women was when I was only 17 and I worked in the office of a large company that fixed trucks and buses, I was the youngest there and the next lady up from me was 23 and then the rest were 30 years and older. They were all lovely to me the first day, and I did get some unwarranted attention from the mechanics, which were mostly male, and it was quite creepy attention really, a 45 year old man asked me out when I was 17, 
anyway after my first day then I was bullied from all the women except the 23 year old, they wouldn’t speak to me, they wouldn’t look at me and they would whisper about me when I was in the kitchen on break, as were they, and they just made my life a misery, when I eventually left (it was that bad that I didn’t even leave for another job, I just left and signed on, I lived with my mum anyway) then the 23 year old who worked there told me the reason the other women didn’t like me; because the male mechanics spoke to me and not them! I couldn’t believe it and that was my first taste of jealous, toxic women and I’ve had it again a few times, so damn right I am a lot cooler when I meet new women, especially in groups.
I don’t know what part of what I’m saying is annoying you so much, have I hit a nerve? If you had have said “I’m sorry that is your experience of women but it’s not mine” then that wouldn’t be bad, but you were quite nasty by making out I’m the issue and that it’s no wonder women don’t want to be pals with me with that attitude, and I’m saying that that’s BS because they don’t know I have that attitude, and if I’m quiet when I meet new women then I 100% certain that they can’t look into my head and think, “god she is so quite because she thinks we are all toxic”, if you don’t speak lots then women can’t judge you, or at least they shouldn’t.
The small number of female acquaintances I do have feel exactly the same about women, and they too prefer guy pals, but other women judge women like that too, as if you are nasty because you prefer to be mates with men, when it’s actually preferring to be pals with men because the bitchy toxic women are the issue, even when I worked at that place when I was 17, then I used to get a lift to work in the morning from one of the nice male mechanics and I used to speak to him about the horrible women, and he said himself that they were just jealous and at the time I would think “jealous of what”, but now I can see exactly what he meant and he was right.