What is something you've had to make peace with never having?

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a good singing voice

wealth

Grandchildren. My son married somebody older that can’t have children, one of my daughters doesn’t want children and the other one has mental health problems and can’t have them either

stress free marriage

@GreenestValley - one of mine is small boobs!

Birthday Cards.

It's my birthday tomorrow, everyone has forgotten or don't care. I've received no cards at all :(

My late husband back.

A decent father for me and also for my child, being slim, a quiet voice, being comfortably off, having any kind of talent…..the list could go on and on 😂😂

Children.

A fully functioning right arm
A sense of time
A sense of distance
And agree with thick hair and a good singing voice. DP is musical and wishes we could sing together. I'm not tone deaf, I know I am singing out of tune, but I can't make my throat do the right thing.

Flat tummy, effortlessly good mental health (it will always be something I have to monitor and work at), a cuddly empathetic mum.

Being able to take a career break to be a SAHM with my kids while they’re are little. I’m not entirely at peace with it, but trying my best.

An older sibling

A child with my husband

Good health.

When I was younger and having fertility treatment /complicated pregnancy's I would have given anything for a text book pregnancy and felt I'd never come to terms with it but over time it's no longer as important.
I now struggle with not losing my health and independene. Ongoing health issues, being unable to work and loosing my career /part of my identity. My children having to help me. Not being able to give my children the experiences they should get. I'm not sure I'll ever come to terms with how my life's turned out.

A loving father
A neurotypical brain
A well paying job

8 sons

Another child (h doesn't want another so I only have one)

My beloved brother alive and healthy.

So sorry for others who have lost loved ones and/or had difficult family relationships.

I have so much to be grateful for but miss my brother endlessly

The names of the couple who drove my dying sister to hospital.

Enormous wealth, a millionaire's lifestyle and a Lamborghini.

@WhenPushComesToShove

My beloved brother alive and healthy.

So sorry for others who have lost loved ones and/or had difficult family relationships.

I have so much to be grateful for but miss my brother endlessly

I am sorry for your pain. I lost my sister 4 years ago and miss her every day, we were very close x

A black belt in takekwondo. I'm 38 now, seems to late.

Moving easily through the world I have autism and plenty of anxiety.

A long life.

Being able to cook and being smart. I don't really mind, I've managed without both!!