What is something you've had to make peace with never having?

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a good singing voice

A man who is not an unreliable reptile

The ability to play tennis. I tried so hard too but even the coach I hired suggested I try a different sport 😂

A child. I've been Pregnant 5 times but never gotten past 9 weeks. Now I just think I've experienced the joy of finding out I'm Pregnant but I'll never have the joy of holding my Baby in my arms

A flat stomach. I haven't had a flat stomach for about 20 years

Confidence - would love to be out going but have more or less now accepted that this is who I am.

Same crunchymum

Boobs
Good man
Money
Pain free body

A close schoolfriend who died aged 37.

No you didn't bring the mood down at all x

Chris Hemsworth....and Chris Evans. Oh and Jensen Ackles and Jared Padalecki.

Off to cry into a box set

The object of my unrequited affections.

to have a couple of friendships would be nice you know the ones who call in for a cuppa or go shopping with, not just the facebook type who you never ever meet

A support system...

A husband.

A proper mini

A mum (died when I was young)
The perfect Christmas

I’m not at peace with it yet, but unrequited love.

Never having been the love of anyone's life.
I was married for 30+ years but it turned out he had never really loved me, and now it's too late for me and I'm too damaged.

Also having no sporting talent whatsoever - but that one's easier to live with !

@Ilovemycatsomuch happy birthday xx

Good skin, a skinny body, a ‘gang’ of close friends, a rich husband, a well dressed house, style, kids who sleep well…

Mine is so minor really but I didn't take any photos of me being pregnant with my first child. Child is 14 now and at the time I hated my photo being taken as my mother kept calling me fat. I wasn't fat, I was pregnant. All I have is a still from a home video of me. This has only really bothered me since instagram started filling my feed full of pregnancy photos. Social media is not good for my mind it seems!

Becoming a GP, still unsure if I should have done this, training to be a psychologist instead. Ultimately would have wanted to combine them.

Good health
A loving mum
Children
Financial security

If you'd asked me 2 years ago I would have said a loving, intimate marriage with a man who cherished me, actually wanted to touch me, was a good provider and my equal intellectually. Thankfully however I refused to make my peace with it, and I found it! Now divorced and not quite married yet but happily engaged to the man of my dreams. It's never too late even at the grand old age of 41

Money
Flat Tummy
Perky boobs again
Decent man

A natural birth.

First csection was due to a failed induction and growth concerns because placenta failed. Second time was due to reduced fluid levels, high risk of stillbirth, consultant refused to allow me to go over 40 weeks. Third time I developed obstetric cholestasis, concerns for baby being stillborn and my own health. At the back of my mind I feel like a failure for not being able to do what so many other women can, its stupid really but the thought lingers.