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To consider myself nearly middle aged at 26

237 replies

User6777000 · 04/10/2021 22:51

Would say from 30 onwards

OP posts:
CanICelebrate · 05/10/2021 07:40

What a stupid goady thread.

DFOD

UtterlyUnimaginativeUsername · 05/10/2021 07:46

Get away out of that, you young whippersnapper.

I'm 41 and only starting to be properly middle aged, and I'm only saying that because I love being middle aged. If I didn't, I'd be denying it for another decade.

LadyCatStark · 05/10/2021 07:46

I suppose so if you’re only planning to live until you’re 52.

Forgothowmuchlhatehomeschoolin · 05/10/2021 07:48

I am prehistoric then if 26 is middle aged!

ApolloandDaphne · 05/10/2021 07:49

I am 59 and have only just conceded I may be middle aged. 26 is very young I'm my eyes.

MintyGreenDream · 05/10/2021 07:51

This is hilarious.Id say 50ish.

Bumpsadaisie · 05/10/2021 07:52

I'm getting on for middle aged. I'm 47.

trama · 05/10/2021 07:53

Oh look, UserBunchOfNumbers comes in, says something arsey/controversial, and doesn't return.

ComDummings · 05/10/2021 07:58

Don’t listen to the goady fucker, people!

sunglassesonthetable · 05/10/2021 07:59

😁😁😁😁👍🏻 yep middle aged🙄

GCAcademic · 05/10/2021 08:02

Well, certainly your brain hasn't matured yet, so I'd say you're a way off.

FortunesFave · 05/10/2021 08:03

@user1471604848

I'd consider Middle Aged to be from about mid-50s. I don't think it needs to be taken literally, that middle aged is half your life.

There's no way someone in their early 40s should be described as middle aged! Grin

It's generally accepted as 40 plus
brokenbiscuitsx · 05/10/2021 08:04

If you plan at dying at 52 OP then yes you’re middle aged 🙄

LookItsMeAgain · 05/10/2021 08:10

You have a very short life expectancy if you think you're middle aged at 26-27.

You, my lovely, can piss right off. Go on! Piss off! Nope. Not having that at all.

What did you think you would achieve if you posted your post there @User6777000????? Eh??? Couldn't even be arsed to register with a decent name then either!

arethereanyleftatall · 05/10/2021 08:11

@FortunesFave
Probably only till you get there yourself, then it's pushed back! I guess technically I'm in the middle, at 46, but I don't feel like it.
I suspect the op has just lit the goady torch, but actually if someone does feel genuinely middle aged in their twenties, that's actually really sad.
'You're only as old as you feel' is very true.

Libertynan · 05/10/2021 08:12

YABVVVVVVVVVVU

I'm mid fifties and am nowhere near middle aged.

Wink
bumblingbovine49 · 05/10/2021 08:17

Really ? Confused

I would.say I reached middle age in my late 40s, early 50s. Not in my 20s!!!

Undertheoldlindentree · 05/10/2021 08:23

I would say around 40-43 onwards, maybe up to around 56, is middle-aged. After that, even with the best regional or family average life expectancy, you are kidding yourself. OP, you have a while to go yet.

lockdownmadnessdotcom · 05/10/2021 08:25

Not RTFT but unless you have a life-limiting condition, I'd say 40-45 is probably middle aged.

ILookAtTheFloor · 05/10/2021 08:28

Im hoping to get to 100 so I'd say 50 is middle age 😁

Treasure5Chest4 · 05/10/2021 08:29

50 middle aged
80+ dinosaur

GreenWhiteViolet · 05/10/2021 08:33

26 is obviously not middle-aged but I think it's interesting and a bit sad that the negative reactions to this from people in their 40s/50s are so strong. What's wrong with being middle aged?

I'm mid-30s and consider myself middle aged because I'm literal-minded and expect that with my health issues/family history, if I live to be 70 I'll have done well.

It means I'm likely around the midpoint of my life (obviously I could die next week or live to be 100, but those things are unlikely). That's all. It doesn't mean I'm boring, on the scrapheap, or whatever other highly negative connotations people seem to be applying. It doesn't mean I don't have a lot more to do in life before I go.

Hobnobsandbroomstick · 05/10/2021 08:36

I guess it depends how fast you've lived up until now. If you plan on kicking the bucket before 60 then maybe.

Chickychickydodah · 05/10/2021 08:36

To me middle age is 50 +

theemmadilemma · 05/10/2021 08:39

I'm 45, I'm middle age. Very. 😂 You're still in your prime!