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To consider myself nearly middle aged at 26

237 replies

User6777000 · 04/10/2021 22:51

Would say from 30 onwards

OP posts:
Ophanim · 05/10/2021 06:47

Fucking hell, I consider myself middle aged (albeit unlikely) and I’m twice your age.

Tryagainplease · 05/10/2021 06:49

Don’t be ridiculous

MadamMedea · 05/10/2021 06:51

Do people in your family tend to die very young?

DoraMaude · 05/10/2021 06:51

Yabu and silly.

Immunetypegoblin · 05/10/2021 06:54

I think 26 is only middle aged if you assume you're going to die young. Come to think of it, my mum died before her 60th birthday and so I guess 20-40 was her middle age.

Thanks OP, that's cheery Confused

iwannabelikeyouhoohoo · 05/10/2021 06:58

Apparently social media outage has similar effects on MN as school holidays.

Suzi888 · 05/10/2021 07:01

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

DotsandCo · 05/10/2021 07:03

Oh do fuck off!! That's bloody insulting...by your maths, I should be 'completely fucking dead'. Which is absolutely depressing! I'm 57, have an amazing, full, busy, professional life. Grow up!

bubblebath62636 · 05/10/2021 07:05

Oh dear 🤣🤣🤣

londonrach · 05/10/2021 07:06

My life started at 41 when I finally had DD . Prior to being in my 40s I'd say 40s was middle aged..now it's 50s...my mil is in her late 70s and says she just reached her middle age...it's all relative. Your 20s is barely out of childhood...enjoy it x

arethereanyleftatall · 05/10/2021 07:09

Are you ok op? Is something else going on?
Most people are having too much fun in their mid-20s to even think about this.

Joystir59 · 05/10/2021 07:11

Don't be ridiculous. You are a young adult.

BlueSuffragette · 05/10/2021 07:12

Deary me ConfusedGrinGrin

maddiemookins16mum · 05/10/2021 07:12

Middle aged is mid 40s at the earliest.

expatmigrant · 05/10/2021 07:13

Guess you must have a low life expectancy?

Peace43 · 05/10/2021 07:18

Ha ha, I’m 44 and don’t feel Middle Aged although I do acknowledge that I’m probably around the middle of my life. 26 is so little!!

2Two · 05/10/2021 07:21

So when do you consider yourself old? 40ish? What does that make 90 year olds?

DeadButDelicious · 05/10/2021 07:23

Oh lord above 🙄. No. If you think 26 is closing in on middle aged then you are wasting being 26.

I had a bit of a 'crisis' when I turned 30. I was a twat. 30 is nothing. I've sadly had friends die at 30 and believe you me they were not 'middle aged'. They were young with their whole lives ahead of them. I'm turning 40 next year, I won't consider myself 'middle aged' till at least 45. And maybe not even then. Grin

RosesAndHellebores · 05/10/2021 07:24

My son's 26. I was nearly 35 when he was born. I am not middle aged.

GrinGrin

userxx · 05/10/2021 07:24

What a depressing mindset.

CoughingInAisle15 · 05/10/2021 07:27

GrinGrinGrinGrin

Yeah, of course you’re middle aged.

Having said that I’ve met some genuinely middle aged people who are younger and have more life in them than some 26 year olds, so maybe it’s a state of mind?

Practicebeingpatient · 05/10/2021 07:32

My mum was middle aged from about your age. A very young mum, working FT with all the cares of the world on her shoulders.

ivykaty44 · 05/10/2021 07:37

average age for a woman is, what 79 - so 37 is slap bang in th e middle and id guess 5 years each way.

so around 32 your middle aged

im def well past middle age and love life

Thursa · 05/10/2021 07:37

I’m 58, I think I’m middle aged. I’m certainly not old.

OneToThree · 05/10/2021 07:39

I always thought middle aged was when you were in the middle of the age you’d live until (not that you’d know). So live until 80, 40 is middle aged to me.