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So angry at dh. Aibu?

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Whatwentwronghere · 28/09/2021 18:56

Just put our 3yo to bed after a day filled with tantrums and stress.

He had been laying down in bed on top of the duvet on his phone while I got her sorted. I came in and lay down on the bed across the bottom.

I just lay on my front facing away from him and started to drift off. I never nap and find it so hard to sleep in general, definitely bordering on insomnia. So I'm lying down and feel myself drifting off.

Cue dh, '*my name, my name, wakey wakey'.

I ignored him.

2 minutes later her puts his foot on my bum and shakes it to wake me up.

Aibu to be absolutely furious at him? He's at football tonight so it makes no difference to him if I'm awake or not.

I'm just so angry at how inconsiderate it is. If he fell asleep, like he did at lunchtime on the sofa, I don't disturb him.

Now I'm wide awake but exhausted. Ugh.

OP posts:
billy1966 · 01/10/2021 12:28

He's a loser.

Pranks🙄

Start making his life a LOT less comfortable.

Stop doing ANYTHING that makes his life easier.

Start disengagement emotionally.

Start planning.

Kindly, he's an arsehole that you have outgrown, 20 years from now you will despise him.

Make plans now.
You deserve better.
So do your children.Flowers

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