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To think this guy leaving me money is so strange?

428 replies

brooksandvicki · 27/09/2021 17:32

Was out last night and met a guy, brought him home and had a one night stand. Had a good night and he left this morning, I then went to work. When I got home I noticed there is a twenty pound note on the side he was 'sleeping'. He obviously does not think I'm a prostitute but why in the hell would he leave that?

AIBU to think this is very very strange?

OP posts:
Tamrastarr · 27/09/2021 19:22

If he gave you his number this morning I'm guessing he would quite like to stay in touch. Otherwise he would've likely said no, or given you a wrong number. Weird thing to do, but it may be a mistake

Nanananani · 27/09/2021 19:22

I’d imagine it’s a kink, he likes the idea of paying for it

QOD · 27/09/2021 19:23

dying to know ...

Ickiness · 27/09/2021 19:24

Was he using it to snort Coke ??

Zeal · 27/09/2021 19:24

@Shellfishblastard

Hope he replies!
"Hi love, I will be round a bit later to pick up my change."
GettingItOutThere · 27/09/2021 19:24

id have text too!! hope he replies, worst he will do is block

RosiePosieDozy · 27/09/2021 19:26

Yes, definitely strange. I imagine he's trying to 'thank you' and he's mishandled the situation.

Hope it's nothing nasty. If he says it is, just block him.

GreenClock · 27/09/2021 19:28

He wants you to get in touch, I reckon.

brooksandvicki · 27/09/2021 19:28

@Ickiness

Was he using it to snort Coke ??
No definitely not
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Constellationstation · 27/09/2021 19:30

Of course he didn’t leave it as an insult if he gave you his number this morning, some people really have wild imaginations, and honestly I think others are getting off on trying to make you feel bad about yourself.

RickJames · 27/09/2021 19:32

Is the note nice and flat? Or has it been rolled?

There's your answer to the coke query.

jobsagudden · 27/09/2021 19:33

I think he has definitely left it as a mistake!!

cricketmum84 · 27/09/2021 19:34

Totally not placemarking just to see the WhatsApp response...

kirinm · 27/09/2021 19:38

What did the message say OP? Sorry can't find the post you're going to copy.

FlatteredFool · 27/09/2021 19:39

Cheeky fucker he is if it's left as anything other than a fallen out of pocket or found on floor scenario.

Beckxx · 27/09/2021 19:39

.

romdowa · 27/09/2021 19:39

Hopefully its all just a misunderstanding!

GreenTeaBlackCoffeeAndRedWine · 27/09/2021 19:42

I'm only here for his reply too.

I would assume it was a mistake too. But this is mumsnet, where a man making a cup of tea wrong is the same as murder.

isthismylifenow · 27/09/2021 19:43

There are some imaginative people on this thread 😂

Janaih · 27/09/2021 19:43

I'd be happy with 20 quid.

brooksandvicki · 27/09/2021 19:44

He replied, sorry for the boring update...'Hi, of course I wouldn't think you're a thief, I didn't even realise to be honest. Don't worry about transferring it back, buy yourself a drink or two on me next time you're out. Hope you're not as rough as me today'. 😂 sorry very anticlimactic!

OP posts:
AliceWo · 27/09/2021 19:45

@brooksandvicki

He replied, sorry for the boring update...'Hi, of course I wouldn't think you're a thief, I didn't even realise to be honest. Don't worry about transferring it back, buy yourself a drink or two on me next time you're out. Hope you're not as rough as me today'. 😂 sorry very anticlimactic!
I'm glad you asked!
LST · 27/09/2021 19:46

@brooksandvicki

He replied, sorry for the boring update...'Hi, of course I wouldn't think you're a thief, I didn't even realise to be honest. Don't worry about transferring it back, buy yourself a drink or two on me next time you're out. Hope you're not as rough as me today'. 😂 sorry very anticlimactic!
I'd be happy with that.

Do you want to see him again?

Zeal · 27/09/2021 19:47

He doesn't love you then? Grin

ripples101 · 27/09/2021 19:48

Seeing as everyone is jumping to conclusions, why didn’t you stick a £20 note in his wallet?

You both shagged each other. You’re no better than him in that respect at least.

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