2nd Thread: friend wants to move in for a 'few months'

[islandhoppin]

As continued from my previous thread.

All she has done with her FB nastiness is show herself up as a complete cow to everyone.

God she is truly vile.

Thats awful, she's gone too far doing that. Friends will think it's odd and won't automatically believe what she writing. My bil writes rants about people on his face book when he feels angry too. We all just roll our eyes and pretend we haven't seen it. Civilised people sort things out privately,. They don't trash talk them on social media. She's actually being a bully and is used to you doing what she says. Because you said no one time, she is raging mad. That's not normal at all.

Her actions make me wonder if she has untreated borderline personality disorder.

I wonder if any of her friends who are agreeing with her on social media are offering their spare rooms for her to stay in? ...Thought not!

Who needs enemies with a ‘friend’ like that?
Agree with pp to seek advice from the police.

She sounds seriously unhinged, very entitled and wants revenge. Better safe then sorry.

Well done for keeping your cool island.

I think that given the time it has gone on, reporting to the police if it continues is a legitimate thing to do.

Hope all is still quiet OP! In fact, dare I hope that you have received an apology for her shockingly bad behaviour???

So did she send her bf round, or did your text do he trick and silence her?

Hope you’re ok
Op

Hi everyone so sorry for the radio silence. It's been a hard weekend. She's tried everything. Been to the house twice, I caught her trying to open my back door to let herself in..

Oh my god! So awful! Have you spoken to the police?

Hope you are okay as can be

That she tried to let herself into your house.

Oh dear. That’s not normal behaviour at all.

She's outrageous! What does she think that will accomplish? Please stay strong Op - you don't deserve someone this awful in your life!

Blimey OP, every post sounds more and more sinister.
You need to decide when you will call the police - her behaviour really isn't normal.
Has your DP had a word with her yet?

Through all her cray cray, has she actually explained why she would like to stay with you rent free?

Think it is time for a word with the police. Trying to let herself in is crazy, escalating behaviour. This sounds even beyond CF territory.

@islandhoppin

Hi everyone so sorry for the radio silence. It's been a hard weekend. She's tried everything. Been to the house twice, I caught her trying to open my back door to let herself in..

OK, the situation does now call for police involvement. I hope you've contacted them.

Yes I second the Police it's gone too far now..

Who in their right mind would keep pushing like this having been told no.

And as if her increasingly erratic behaviour would make you change your mind.

@islandhoppin

Hi everyone so sorry for the radio silence. It's been a hard weekend. She's tried everything. Been to the house twice, I caught her trying to open my back door to let herself in..

What was said?

She is one crazy person

Please call the non urgent line of the police.

What the hell was she hoping to achieve by confronting you? At the station and trying to gain entry to your home? Was she going to have a quiet chat?
She needs a restraining order. Now.