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Have any celebrities gone missing?!

291 replies

RevolvingPivot · 21/08/2021 00:00

No AIBU just posting here as more people use this topic.

I know being famous means you cannot leave your old life and start again like some missing people must.

Some people just vanish though don't they? Taking no money or ID.

Can people just "disappear? I know a lot of these people will have been murdered and no evidence found but how come it hadn't happened to anyone famous.

Had a drink tonight abs I can't really put it into words what I'm trying to say.

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namechangetheworld · 22/08/2021 21:35

John Deacon was my first thought too. I don't believe he ever officially retired, just quietly disappeared from the public eye around 1997 and has only been seen two or three times since. His youngest son is a blogger and occasionally mentions him in passing, and this is the only proof fans have that he's still alive. He was incredibly shy, even in Queen's heyday, and didn't enjoy the limelight at all. I like to believe he's living the life he always wanted now.

littlelove84 · 22/08/2021 21:46

Ivanka Trump (Donald's daughter) who was really active on social media, hasn't been posting since May 5th, but whether that means she is missing is another question.
Absence is off though.

LloydColeandtheCoconuts · 22/08/2021 21:49

@winewolfhowls

Whatserfaces husband in tiger king
Grin
COPPER3 · 22/08/2021 21:50

Natalie Wood? I know she is meant to have drowned, but i don't think they ever found her body? May be wrong though..(sorry if I am). It is a fascinating story and very sad.

LloydColeandtheCoconuts · 22/08/2021 22:02

@NeedToKnow101

Omg! It's Liz Kershaw who is Andy Kershaw's sister. I'm mortified BlushBlush. In my defence I'm very hungover.
GrinGrin
RevolvingPivot · 22/08/2021 22:18

[quote youboozeyoulose]Not a mystery, but the very sad case of Mark Speight is the only time I recall the police for appealing for information on the whereabouts of a celebrity. Such a tragic story www.business-live.co.uk/economic-development/police-issue-cctv-images-missing-3961273[/quote]
Yes he was found hanged wasn't he?

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COPPER3 · 22/08/2021 22:22

I'm a dummy! Re Natalie Wood, her body was found the next day. Sorry folks.
The husband of Olivia Newton John went missing...

Voicefancier · 22/08/2021 22:29

@Balgoresboy
meh apart from mark, gary and Robbie the other 2 were much less publicised

ER, one of the other 2 was called Howard and he smiled at me at a concert. So a little less 'meh' if you please. I mean, really, how very dare you!

Voicefancier · 22/08/2021 22:32

@namechangetheworld

John Deacon was my first thought too. I don't believe he ever officially retired, just quietly disappeared from the public eye around 1997 and has only been seen two or three times since. His youngest son is a blogger and occasionally mentions him in passing, and this is the only proof fans have that he's still alive. He was incredibly shy, even in Queen's heyday, and didn't enjoy the limelight at all. I like to believe he's living the life he always wanted now.
I saw Brian May talking about him. Very respectfully. But he implied that he isn't well, maybe some sort of mental disease although he didnt say that. He said it was very sad. I much prefer to think he's just living a quiet life, happily pruning his roses.
EsmaCannonball · 22/08/2021 22:50

I haven't read the full thread, so apologies if this has already been mentioned, but the American fiction writer and journalist Ambrose Bierce went missing while investigating the Mexican revolution. Nobody knows what happened to him or if he was even in Mexico when he disappeared.

Not a celebrity as such, but the disappearance that really gets to me is the Swedish diplomat Raoul Wallenberg. It's pretty much accepted that he and his driver died somewhere in the Soviet gulag or prison system, but the whole case is so sad and unjust. It just makes me loathe the Soviet authorities.

RevolvingPivot · 22/08/2021 23:19

Not a celebrity but I've been reading about the Andrew Gosden case. I wonder what happened to him?

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MessOfEyelinerAndSpraypaint · 22/08/2021 23:41

I had a feeling lovely Richey Edwards would be the first to be mentioned.
Nicky Wire says. "You've got hope on the one side, and clarity or closure on the other. And sometimes you want closure, but to get closure you have to kill hope."
I still recall those awful days, weeks, cannot believe its been 26 years & feel desperately sad for his bereft sister Rachel.
I believe he used his urge to disappear into nothingness, to create an enduring myth for the band. Thus he laid the trail of 'Disappearing' clues to feel useful one last time from the corner he felt backed into.
But that's just my opinion.
As someone who was & remains a fervent Manics fan, the pain never lessens, and as I've had my own friend & ex bro in law vanish, it really is the hope against logic that kills.
Interesting thread op.

Darlingx · 22/08/2021 23:46

CornishGem1975
Duffy was in an independent film debut Patagonia and then 2 more films . I feel for anyone in that situation where it can be shutdown and personally I believe her . Based on my own experience of how crimes against women get treated as in overlooked.

Darlingx · 22/08/2021 23:53

restingbitchface30

Apparently he was living in Putney at one point. I actually think he is normal . I think it’s more bizarre some of the stuff they did with the legacy of Queen’s music. I saw the theatre show which I thought was cheesy and then there is all the cleaning product adverts. They don’t need the money so John just enjoying a private life seems sane to me

MrsCatE · 23/08/2021 00:33

Anyone remember John Stonehouse, Labour MP who did a Reggie Perrin off a beach in Miami only to have turned up in Australia later, shacked up with his Secretary / mistress?! Allegedly, some of his family may have been aware he was still alive after initial disappearance

SSCCLL · 23/08/2021 00:47

Nothing to add other than I enjoyed the read!!! Grin

Ddot · 23/08/2021 04:15

Jedwood
or is that wishful thinking 🤣

itsgettingwierd · 23/08/2021 04:19

@Rachelthegreat

My husband says that the entire Leeds United defence went missing last Saturday (he’s a Man Utd fan)
Grin
itsgettingwierd · 23/08/2021 04:21

@theliverpoolone

There are theories that Elvis faked his death, if you google it.
This is the one i thought of
itsgettingwierd · 23/08/2021 04:25

@chocolateorangeinhaler

Ryan has been missing from radio and tv for months. Not a peep from the papers either.
Do you mean Rylan? He split with his husband and it was reported he was taking a break.

I'm sure he was also very good friends with Nikki and that really affected him too.

Luddite26 · 23/08/2021 07:12

@craigsgirlfriend

Nor quite the same but John Deacon of Queen.
Yes! I don't blame he I could not have carried on without Freddie. Still in mourning for him now.
PopsicleHustler · 23/08/2021 07:51

A lot of people think that Tupac isn't dead and in hiding
He would be roughly 50 now!

I would also love it if Neil Buchanan was Banksy!
My son also would love it too!

Frazzledd · 23/08/2021 08:04

@winewolfhowls

Everyone knows that Neil Buchanan of Art Attack is Banksy! Grin
That really made me laugh!!
Frazzledd · 23/08/2021 08:13

@suckingonchillidogs

I bloody loved Cheggars, he always cheered me up
Me too! Remembering his part with Ricky Gervais in 'Extras', brilliant Grin
Cakeofdoom · 23/08/2021 11:03

Slightly off topic but how do people go into witness protection without telling their families ? Are their deaths faked or something ? I have a friend who died in odd circumstances, inquest not made public that I can see. My friend once alluded to knowing some people who were Gangsters or Mafia esque who were involved in high level drug production but it was being laundered through public services and friend was pretty scared...all very mysterious. I've often wondered if my friend went into witness protection instead of the alleged suicide...dunno...maybe I've had too much coffee 😂