He's shagged her tonight, hasn't he?

[Fullerene]

Ex is with his ex tonight, overnight. They have a casual FWB relationship since splitting up; I was never comfortable with the two meeting up, which is one of the main reasons I splut up witn him. She is dating someone, but that didn't stop her last time (while he and I were still together - he declined because she had a bf and he had a gf ath the time). He already told me he is upset another one of his exes (who he will see in a month) has a BF so he won't be able to shag her.

He's rodgering the other woman right now, isn't he? Even though we've only split up for a week. I have a feeling and it's never before let me down. MN please help me get rid of him in my thoughts?

How old are you?
You sound very young

If you've split up he can do what he wants. It's not healthy to be obsessing about what he might or might not be doing. What are you doing- do something nice for yourself.

He sounds utterly revolting and sexually incontinent to boot . You're well rid.

Why are you talking to him about who he is meeting and shagging? Just block him and move on.

I suppose if he is, all the more proof you've done the right thing by leaving

Why do you care? You got rid of him, quite wisely. Let it go and move on.

MN please help me get rid of him in my thoughts?

Read your OP. Why would you want him 🤷‍♀️

Hopefully his penis will fall off soon.

Rogering

Yabu. You've broken up so it no longer anything to do with you. Don't dwell on it and move on with your life.

Oh my, find your self respect! He sounds like a disgusting dog. You are worth more than fretting over him! He sounds like a prize wanker. Count yourself lucky he has gone.

How do you know they're meeting up? If it's via social media remove them, thr relationship is over and dwelling on what he's doing will bring no happiness only stress. Take out the trash and remove him from your social media and phone, you don't need to hear his whines about exs having bys.

Get a grip woman!! Why are you hung up on this loser? Read your OP as if it was a friend writing it and tell yourself what you'd tell a friend

It's nothing to do with you now.

There is an age gap. But I am the older one. He was always happy having what I thought were inappropiate relationships with his exes. Always the FWB kind. I thought I was wrong in being uncomfortable with this. Anyway, it's only been a week, so of course he's on my mind. Please be kind!

He’s your ex.

Ex.

Why care?

And he sounds like a right charmer.

Sorry OP but he is single, didn't cheat on you, he doesn't sound half as bad as PPs are making out - only thing he's done wrong is a rather crude comment about not being able to sleep with another ex?

He can shag who he wants as long as it's consensual. So can you.

Anyway, it's only been a week, so of course he's on my mind. Please be kind!

Not being unkind but you should be glad to see the back of him. You split up in part because you were not happy with him meeting his ex. There is definitely a reason for this and it isn't you.

You dumped him, right? Good call, clearly, but that does mean he’s free to ‘roger’ his way up and down the country. Try and put him out of your head.

So he likes to keep several ex GFs around for casual sex, and wants to add you to that list basically.

Have some respect for yourself OP and block him.

You mention age gap, do you feel that's part of the issue?

He is at a different maturing level.

Look, you broke up for reason. You need to keep remembering that. He might be shagging her. He might not. Who knows?

Is he saying these things like another ex has a boyfriend, and he is annoyed since you split or when you were together.

If its since you split, why are you still in touch with him. That's not helping.

And if it was when you were together, you should have dumped him earlier and he isn't worth this emotional energy.

move on
he's probably counting on you to become an ex with benefits
don't

Hopefully his penis will fall off soon.

No you only lose it if you don't use it

OP, he's a sleaze, block and move on.

@FrangipaniDeLaSqueegeeMop

Get a grip woman!! Why are you hung up on this loser? Read your OP as if it was a friend writing it and tell yourself what you'd tell a friend

🤣

I'm sorry you feel this way - it has only been a week. But be honest with yourself, was it ever going to go anywhere? You are free now to find your own FWB. Or someone nicer than him 😊

So very few MNers would have a problem with their very recent ex-bfs shagging someone else (an ex they've always mistrusted because she actively wanted sex witn him during your relationship)? Or even the thought of it?

Yes, I dumped him. It still stings.