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I would not call it cheating but a red flag. Sees women as purely objects, a sign of misogyny, so not harmless.
Why do you say that?
If these women put their half naked pictures up on the Internet for everyone to look at. Why does it make people who look at them misogynistic? Why are they there in the first place?surely because these women want to be admired and looked at?*
It's internalised misogyny - girls are shown from very early on that they will be valued and 'rewarded' for presenting themselves as sexual objects for men, and will be perceived as less valuable if they don't.
In the model/IG case the rewards and value come from likes, social standing, income, fame, etc and in one sense can be seen as a success story because the models look like they are in control/have chosen the narrative.
But for every empowered success story like this there are many many thousands and millions more stories where the outcome of men thinking its ok to sexually objectify women is absolutely the opposite of 'success'. It sometimes looks like your basic lack of respect/ inequality and frequently looks like harassment/intimidation/much worse.
And sometimes the models who look really empowered and in control have pretty sad stories going on at the same time. Remember #metoo?
All of this stems from a male sense of entitlement in relation to women's bodies being objects available to them to like/access/judge,without much if any consideration of the woman's feelings/interests/autonomy.
So ideally we as a society would be trying to cut down on blatant sexual objectifying not rewarding it. We are all sexual beings of course but should not be acceptable to view any person or class of persons to being only a sexual being.
Obviously- not all men are like that, etc. But I doubt the OP's sister has found herself a good one here.