And why the expectation that western nations continue to force their own style of democracies and social and religious structures on nations that historically have rejected such?
Yes, many of these nations are a complete mess by western standards, but they have been so for a long time. Far longer than the western enlightenments.
As atrocious as many of these nations are socially, religiously, governmentally, militaristically, it is not the wests right to reshape them in our image, and impose our will upon them, no matter how right, or how much better the wests way would be for the people in those countries.