I do accept that a lot of teenagers who grew up in care are badly damaged, and hence I can see why this girl was unfit to be a mum. It’s made me think of my two adopted DDs’ birth mum (they’re 12 and 9 now), who also grew up in care and was sexually exploited. She’s had 4 DC, who have all been taken off her. It’s heartbreaking and I know it will be for my DDs when they see all the details one day.
Asian should have been in care, that much is totally clear. Or at least, she should have been monitored far more closely than she evidently was.
I think I would feel sympathy if this had been the first time she’d left her daughter alone or if it had been for one or two nights only and she’d been distraught to discover that her daughter had died.
But it wasn’t the first time. And it was for 6 nights! She also lied time and again, saying that she had left Asia with her mum. She also inquired about modelling jobs, with no thought about her poor daughter.
So I’m struggling to have any empathy for the mum in this case. I’ll save that for the poor little girl who died alone and must have been in agony.
Although I wouldn’t use the word ‘evil’ to describe her, I think that’s a word that’s vastly overused. I would describe her as ‘damaged’, and too much so to care for a child. That’s not excusing anything. She had ample opportunity to give her daughter up if she didn’t want to be tied down by a baby. But I also think some of the responsibility has to be shared by Children’s Services, who knew that she wasn’t looking after her daughter properly. How else is there a record of her having left her home alone before?