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What is the WORST pain you've ever had?

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AbsentmindedWoman · 28/07/2021 18:51

Personally, toothache (constant background throb with searing white hot stabs that made me feel like I was being electrocuted in my skull every few seconds) gets the award for absolute worst ever. Two frozen shoulders, and adenomyosis that used to regularly have me puking and fainting and almost hallucinating on the bathroom floor are strong contenders - but miles behind. There is just something about vicious toothache that makes it the worst.

Contemplating this as just back from the dentist, where at least for now, things were ok this time Grin

What about you?

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HopingForOurRainbowBaby · 28/07/2021 22:45

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emeraldcity2000 · 28/07/2021 22:46

@Megan2018

Dislocated kneecap and childbirth. I think the kneecap edges it as the worst but it’s close.
Snap. My kneecap dislocates quite regularly sadly (including today actually)...
JollyJasper · 28/07/2021 22:46

For me- when DD head was crowning, I remember thinking this is the “ring of fire” that people talk about. Turns out I was actually tearing inside and out suffering from a 4th degree tear and what I could feel was in fact me ripping my butt clean in half- this was all without any pain relief as I had only been in the hospital 15 mins and pushing less than 60 seconds. DD literally fell out whilst taking the whole lot with her🤦🏼‍♀️

Oh and the after part didn’t feel much better as I was held together with a kind of bulldog clip to stop my bowel dropping out and had to sit upright on said clip whilst they put the epidural in so I could be sewn back up for 4 hours.

Seymour5 · 28/07/2021 22:47

Trigeminal neuralgia and childbirth.

RaindropsOnRosie · 28/07/2021 22:47

Sacroiliitis. Worst pain ever and it's constant. 100 times worse than sciatica. Can't sit, stand, walk or lie down without 100mg of tramadol every 4-5 hours and 2 types of anti-inflammatories. Sickness and dizziness are the nicest part of it. 2 ruptured and degenerative discs too, plus arthritis. Delightful!

mrstnov13 · 28/07/2021 22:48

Tooth ache hands down.
Followed closely by DD1's back to back birth.

Brigante9 · 28/07/2021 22:49

I had 2 strips of skin the length of my thigh used for a huge skin graft after an accident. The dressing had to be changed at the Outpatients of the Royal Free near me. I’m a very quick healer, so the skin grew into the dressing. Getting it off involved screaming, almost breaking my DH’s hand. I decided I would change my own dressing after that (and syringe the tunnel under the skin, in one hole, out the other). Paraffin dressings are a boon!

maddening · 28/07/2021 22:49

Gall stone attack
Brace tightening
Childbirth

Sunshineandalltherainbows · 28/07/2021 22:50

I've had to put up with a lot of pain in my life: appendicitis, sepsis, 2 induced births with the drip, gallstones
But nothing even remotely comes close to when I had a ovarian torsion. Left ovary and fallopian tube along with the watermelon sized cyst had to be removed. I was given so so much pain relief by Dr's and I just remember thinking I want to die because I didn't want the pain anymore. Truly horrific.

Suchalicklepumpkin · 28/07/2021 22:50

A dental abscess. It blew a difficult 36 hour labour out of the water. I gave birth 4 times with zero pain relief, but that damn abscess still makes me shudder. I remember pressing my cheek against bathroom tiles to cool it down.

Deedoubleyou · 28/07/2021 22:50

Toothache for me too, impacted and infected wisdom tooth uo to the nerve. The pain came on so terribly in the night that I seriously considered pulling the tooth out myself with pliers. Been through natural childbirth, broken bones etc....nothing touches the toothache.

imaginethemdragons · 28/07/2021 22:50

Miscarriage.
It’s pretty much childbirth but with nothing at the end of it.

Supersimkin2 · 28/07/2021 22:51

Gallstones. Just one teeny little calcium deposit and you're on another planet till the morphine kicks in.

Sunshineandalltherainbows · 28/07/2021 22:51

An ovarian torsion not a. Ahh hate typing on phones 😂

Megan2018 · 28/07/2021 22:51

@emeraldcity2000 it’s hellish isn’t it. My left one has fully gone 8 times now, I’ve got an almost fully torn meniscus. Mine is genetic as my Dad has the same thing, apparently the kneecap is too shallow.
Twice I’ve had to have it put back in hospital, the rest mercifully have gone back themselves.
I feel for you today!

Frogshoe · 28/07/2021 22:52

Hip surgery! I can't take anti inflammatory meds and the other meds I was prescribed needed two nurses so they gave me nothing for hours after surgery even though I was screaming in agony!

ToomuchHeat · 28/07/2021 22:52

I would say… dry socket, gallstones, post epidural spinal headache

BeatieBourke · 28/07/2021 22:52

I woke up from an emergency (and very messy) full hysterectomy without any pain relief. They'd asked me before I went under if I wanted an epidural and I said no (had several for childbirth/surgery the previous two months and had been awful+not very effective). For some reason they'd got their wires crossed and thought I'd had the epidural. It wasn't nice.

Weirdly, I remember the screaming and writhing (and their horrified and hasty response), but not the pain. I think my brain has blocked it out because it was too great/incomprehensible.

MrsDoctorDear · 28/07/2021 22:52

Root canal on a tooth with an abscess. By far worse than labour.
The dentist was sweating and the nurse had to hold my flailing legs down.
Labour was a doddle compared to that.

CasparBloomberg · 28/07/2021 22:53

Another vote for trigeminal neuralgia.
Only time I ever passed out with pain. Repeatedly. Instantly.
The constant background pain was severe enough but because the even worse acute pain striking was sudden onset there was no control or way of knowing when it would strike, it was terrifying. All day, every day, no relief and acute attacks several times an hour. It was like torture.

Ive also had gallstones, given birth, sciatica and trapped nerve in hip. Those hurt but the pain could be managed.

Ledgeofglory · 28/07/2021 22:54

I would have to say toothache. I was swallowing painkillers round the clock and they were doing nothing. I actually thought I’d rather be dead than in the pain I was in

Guavaf1sh · 28/07/2021 22:54

Angle closure glaucoma

ButYouJustPointedToAIIOfMe · 28/07/2021 22:57

Broken wrist and broken scaphoid
Natural Childbirth

LeonoraFlorence · 28/07/2021 22:58

Tooth abscess. I literally banged my head off the wall all night. I remember begging for help. The relief when they took the tooth out was immense.

AngeloMysterioso · 28/07/2021 22:58

The last time I had seriously bad tooth pain it felt like the whole left side of my head was caving in

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