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Is this ok to wear as a guest to a wedding

440 replies

HoliHormonalTigerlilly · 25/07/2021 19:30

Too much white?

Is this ok to wear as a guest to a wedding
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NoLongerWantLiamToWin · 27/07/2021 13:09

Mumsnet has changed Sad There would never have been all these 'you can't be serious' posts in the good old days. 😢 Has Netmums closed down?

ConstanceGracy · 27/07/2021 13:10

@NoLongerWantLiamToWin

Mumsnet has changed Sad There would never have been all these 'you can't be serious' posts in the good old days. 😢 Has Netmums closed down?
It’s sad isn’t it? Is lack of sense of humour a covid side effect?
VanGoSunflowers · 27/07/2021 13:35

@NoLongerWantLiamToWin

Mumsnet has changed Sad There would never have been all these 'you can't be serious' posts in the good old days. 😢 Has Netmums closed down?
OP should have added ‘lighthearted’ to her title* Wink

*I am of course, joking

LunaAndHerMoonDragons · 27/07/2021 13:39

@TrixieThunder

It’s okay but a bit ‘meh’. I think something like this would be more appropriate if I’m honest.
Highly appropriate. I think OPs dress would fade into the background too much. If you can't stand out at your EX's weeding then where can you?
Nancydrawn · 27/07/2021 13:42

@lucysnowe2

Umm, clearly that is not a wedding dress, it's a white floral length gown. It's very different. Wink
Great minds.

Lucy's right: go Alexis, not Moira.

AlfonsoTheMango · 27/07/2021 13:47

The posters writing "r u srs? is wedding dress" might benefit from taking a moment or two to read the thread before posting.

LunaAndHerMoonDragons · 27/07/2021 13:49

Love the pops of colour. I still don't think it sends quite the right message. I'm thinking a beautiful white handbag with a colour photograph of you and Ex at you're wedding. I also like the idea of PP scrawl I had him first in red all down your cathedral Ttain.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 27/07/2021 15:00

@midsomermurderess

This, in so many of the replies, is why Cummings et al were so successful. Despite the blinding obvious, some people simply can't approach information with an iota of thinking critically. It's a bit scary. £350m a week to the NHS? Let me swallow that whole.
Yup. See also: assorted Covid/vaccine conspiracies.
TalesOfDrunkennessAndCruelty · 27/07/2021 15:09

Yes, it’s one of the things that marks one out as an old gimmer, I can remember when all this was trees but people used to be able to spot a jokey thread, and respond accordingly, without it needing a “lighthearted” label and a brass band to alert them. O tempora, o mores.

SpindleWhorl · 27/07/2021 15:14

Indeed, @TalesOfDrunkennessAndCruelty. Senatus haec intellegit, Mumsnet videt; hic tamen vivit!

midsomermurderess · 27/07/2021 15:33

I think also people less and less engage with threads. It's merely an opportunity to have your say. Never mind that it has become clear something is a wind up, the poster has long since buggered off, or the 50 posts above yours have said to the letter the same thing. It's increasingly just, 'I must have my say'. It's all that matters. A click on all or the next of the OP's posts would provide some context, but why bother.

TalesOfDrunkennessAndCruelty · 27/07/2021 15:40

Yes, that’s true, even though seeing all the OP’s posts was a luxury barely dreamt of when some of us arrived here

Iamthewombat · 27/07/2021 15:46

@midsomermurderess

I think also people less and less engage with threads. It's merely an opportunity to have your say. Never mind that it has become clear something is a wind up, the poster has long since buggered off, or the 50 posts above yours have said to the letter the same thing. It's increasingly just, 'I must have my say'. It's all that matters. A click on all or the next of the OP's posts would provide some context, but why bother.
Yeah, this. Don’t bother reading the thread, either to understand the question better, or to get context, or to see whether the OP has changed her position, or to check whether your freshly minted piece of wisdom has already been contributed 500 times. No, have YOUR say, because that is what matters.

There’s a different thread from an OP whose neighbours are climbing the wall into her garden when she is at work. The sheer number of posts telling her to ‘borrow a fierce dog to scare them off’. Many, many posters throughout the thread have explained that it is a bad idea for many reasons. Still, the same piece of advice keeps coming.

Mamanyt · 27/07/2021 15:47

@Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g

Pr1mr0se, have you noticed that there are nearly 400 posts in this thread already? Do you know that you can scroll through a thread looking just at the OP's posts? Both of these are helpful things to bear in mind if you can't work out if an OP is meant to be funny.
In fact, you can click on the "see all" button at the bottom of OP's FIRST post and bring up every post in the thread. Just found that out recently, myself.
midsomermurderess · 27/07/2021 15:47

Yes, that's a new development. As, I think, is just punting in your reply without gleaning any context, or that now being so common. There seem to be fewer conversations now, despite it never having being easier to see where a thread is going.

igelkott2021 · 27/07/2021 16:39

If you can't stand out at your EX's weeding then where can you

it would be a great thing to wear for weeding - very practical Grin

MrsEko · 27/07/2021 16:46

@Pinkandpink

A wedding guest? Your joking, that looks very bridal to me. I’d be well pissed of If someone turned up at my wedding in this and you know it.

Well I love it. And the OP has a great relationship with her ex husband and it's his wedding so I'm quite sure it will be just the right outfit.

XpressoMartini · 27/07/2021 17:23

Many people on this thread don't understand sarcasm

GinJeanie · 27/07/2021 17:23

This looks cosy...

Is this ok to wear as a guest to a wedding
Congressdingo · 27/07/2021 17:32

@midsomermurderess

I think also people less and less engage with threads. It's merely an opportunity to have your say. Never mind that it has become clear something is a wind up, the poster has long since buggered off, or the 50 posts above yours have said to the letter the same thing. It's increasingly just, 'I must have my say'. It's all that matters. A click on all or the next of the OP's posts would provide some context, but why bother.
How long ago was "cancel the cheque" God I had a love/hate with that, 6000000000000000 replies all saying the same.

Anyway it feels like that was barren fields time, although my memory being so shit it was probably last week.

UnRavellingFast · 27/07/2021 17:32

@Ari202

It’s a wedding dress… for the bride. Don’t be that person Hmm
I feel it’s very supportive to the bride actually. Then she’s not the only one dressed up like a tit! I think she’ll welcome OP with open arms IMHO. Just differentiate with see through skirtage and red thong and you’re golden!
SpindleWhorl · 27/07/2021 17:43

@GinJeanie

This looks cosy...
I could seriously weed in that.
TalesOfDrunkennessAndCruelty · 27/07/2021 18:00

"Cancel the cheque" is one of those things some folk bandy about, to suggest they've been here a long time, but for those of us who can remember the barren fields it's quite recent history. And yes, it got very repetitive very quickly. In my day it was the cutted up pear and the bobble plate, and probably some others I've forgotten.

Anyway, I wandered into this from the gardening topic, so am off to suggest that we all do the weeding dressed in a full length, crocheted cocoon.

Anotherlovelybitofsquirrel · 27/07/2021 18:07

Being on the autistic spectrum it’s sometimes hard for me to spot what may be obvious to others

Despite so many people pointing it out over and over...

AmyDudley · 27/07/2021 18:07

It’s a wedding dress… for the bride.
Don’t be that person

God yeah - there's always one at every wedding isn't there ? (Well two if you count the bride)

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