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Reporting someone for failing to isolate

357 replies

WouldYouShouldI · 17/07/2021 00:44

Under what circumstances would you report someone for failing to isolate? Would you report any breach, no breach, or would it depend on circumstances?

I've been told by a friend that a family member of theirs (should be isolating because someone they live with has tested positive) is not isolating, and is even going out to work- and they work with vulnerable people in a medical environment!

Should I report them regardless of the possible consequences on my friend (who will be blamed if they get caught)? Or encourage my friend to do the same, again despite the consequences?

I'm torn!

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comebacksunshines · 17/07/2021 07:58

@WeGoHigh

It baffles me that people could defend this with the circumstances the OP has set out. If your vulnerable family member was being cared for by someone living with someone who’d tested positive would you be so blasé? I know everyone is exhausted at this stage but come on
Agree with this . Report them to their employer. Not all vulnerable people can have the vaccine, so the assumption they will all be vaccinated is wrong. If it’s hearsay then individual concerned should have no problem proving otherwise. It’s not about dobbing people in and comparisons to Nazi Germany, are offensive and disgusting. It’s about protecting vulnerable people.
jihhy · 17/07/2021 08:01

Ultimately unless the government are prepared to step up and support people who have to isolate, people won't do it. They can't afford to and I don't blame anyone who decides they can't do it anymore.

So what about those that can afford to?

Ilovechinese · 17/07/2021 08:02

No I would mind my own business

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SchoolsOutForGood · 17/07/2021 08:03

The only reason I would report would be if they had tested positive and were not isolating

SmallPrawnEnergy · 17/07/2021 08:03

@WeGoHigh

It baffles me that people could defend this with the circumstances the OP has set out. If your vulnerable family member was being cared for by someone living with someone who’d tested positive would you be so blasé? I know everyone is exhausted at this stage but come on
Of course those “we’re no better than the Nazis” criers would be the FIRST to scream and shout and sue if their loved one died or was extremely ill in this situation. 100% shit for brains when the replies are Carry on curtain twitching hun same shit fir brains who were probably smashing pans every week for the NHS but now they’ve “had enough”. Shame it doesn’t target these morons.
DancesWithTortoises · 17/07/2021 08:03

Nazi mentions so early in the thread. Godwin's law applies.

warmfluffytowels · 17/07/2021 08:04

@jihhy

Ultimately unless the government are prepared to step up and support people who have to isolate, people won't do it. They can't afford to and I don't blame anyone who decides they can't do it anymore.

So what about those that can afford to?

How do you judge that, though?

There should be isolation pay that employers pay and claim back from the government. IMO it should be full pay each time someone isolates.

People shouldn't be worse off because they're following the law.

SmallPrawnEnergy · 17/07/2021 08:05

@Tay1980

Be very careful with this. My son has tested positive and obviously I am now self isolating. I have been invited to take part in a government study where if you test negative on a lateral flow each day you can then be released from self isolation for 24 hours for essential activities…such as work. I am 2 days into this and have tested negative so am living my life as pretty much normal.
Be very careful? If the person was taking place in this study then what exactly does op need to be careful about as this person will have all the necessary documentation to back up that they’re part of a study?
amission · 17/07/2021 08:06

1984 all over again

jihhy · 17/07/2021 08:07

How do you judge that, though?

Well I can because I can wfh even though I've been on site throughout the pandemic except for self isolation periods. So in my situation is it ok for me to not self isolate? Are you anti self isolation in general or just for those who don't get paid?

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seven201 · 17/07/2021 08:07

I think going out for a walk with no one around is one thing but going to work with vulnerable people is risking lives and will potentially cause lots more people to isolate. I don't know if I'd report but I'd definitely be giving them a piece of my mind!

jihhy · 17/07/2021 08:09

People shouldn't be worse off because they're following the law.

I doubt anyone would disagree with that.

ChubbyLittleManInACampervan · 17/07/2021 08:11

I would never report anyone for not isolating

Isolation rules are bonkers

The whole situation is unwarranted, all the vulnerable and elderly are vaccinated, deaths are down, nhs no longer overwhelmed

So no I would report nobody

Cam2020 · 17/07/2021 08:11

Of course those “we’re no better than the Nazis” criers would be the FIRST to scream and shout and sue if their loved one died or was extremely ill in this situation. 100% shit for brains when the replies are Carry on curtain twitching hun same shit fir brains who were probably smashing pans every week for the NHS but now they’ve “had enough”.
Shame it doesn’t target these morons.

While we're in tbe subject of 'shut for brains', how intelligent would you be to report someone on hearsay? Few poters seem to be able to grasp that part. Do you think he said/she said gossip is credible enough to 'report' someone on?

Confiscatedpopit · 17/07/2021 08:11

The Nazis didn’t just storm in and start revealing their true colours overnight. OP is clearly not being offensive to Jewish people. It’s about the insidious dripping gap that they started in the late 20s… how it slowly became acceptable to report neighbour’s etc.

Twoforthree · 17/07/2021 08:12

I’d want to, but not sure if I actually would. I’d feel guilty if I decided not to.

WeRTheOnesWeHaveBeenWaitingFor · 17/07/2021 08:15

I wouldn’t because you don’t know there full situation and I was brought up to feel like ‘grassing’ is morally wrong.
However people comparing the UK to Nazi Germany are being extremely offensive to the millions who died and the millions who were traumatised for life. There is no comparison.

jihhy · 17/07/2021 08:15

I wouldn't report someone on hearsay & if I knew the full facts I'm still not sure however if they were coming to work in my fils care home I would want to do something. However I know reporting them won't mean they are carted off to a concentration camp.

amission · 17/07/2021 08:19

@WeRTheOnesWeHaveBeenWaitingFor

I wouldn’t because you don’t know there full situation and I was brought up to feel like ‘grassing’ is morally wrong. However people comparing the UK to Nazi Germany are being extremely offensive to the millions who died and the millions who were traumatised for life. There is no comparison.
It's not the regime or even the consequences people are comparing though, it's that nasty little itch to be the 'good citizen' and report neighbours.
jumpbounce · 17/07/2021 08:19

@ChubbyLittleManInACampervan

I would never report anyone for not isolating

Isolation rules are bonkers

The whole situation is unwarranted, all the vulnerable and elderly are vaccinated, deaths are down, nhs no longer overwhelmed

So no I would report nobody

Except they aren't are they. This is just what people who have no idea beyond their own 'not at risk' bubble spout. I have a 4 year old who is CEV shielded for over a year and is now back in shielding due to this country opting to just give up on covid. We don't get compensation for the fact we have to shield as a family which has meant giving up jobs, having to homeschool full time etc. There are many more people in this same scenario because they can't have the vaccine or the 53,000 CEV children who can't be vaccinated.
bumblingbovine49 · 17/07/2021 08:20

@FelicityBeedle

I wouldn’t report for an app ping, or a bubble bursting. But somebody living with a positive case and still going to work (especially in a medical environment) I absolutely would. To their employer at the very least
In these circumstances I'd consider it too, but only if I had been told directly by the person what they were doing, not if I'd just heard it from someone else .

I'd also tell the person themselves first that if they didn't isolate I'd report them .

jihhy · 17/07/2021 08:22

Perhaps I'm a curtain twitcher though as I also phoned the police a few days ago as I saw a man trying the backdoor of my neighbours house at 2am. My neighbour was away at the time & wasn't having anyone to stay.
However I had no idea about the circumstances, the man could have been lost or hungry or looking for interior design tips (neighbour has great taste).