How am I supposed to teach my children boundaries when I can't be certain that trusted organisations like schools and libraries won't invite in people who, at best, don't understand children or safeguarding?
I raise my kids as "gender neutral" as possible. They love dressing up and don't especially conform. They don't actually need you to teach them free expression, thanks, but I'd be grateful if you stopped shoving stereotypes down their throats.
Why would an organisation want to link this wonderful free expression that children are capable of (if we don't stuff them in the footballer /princess box) with adult sexuality? What positive does that bring my children?
How are my children empowered to tell me that, for example, an adult who wasn't their parents was naked around them, if they are exposed to this at the library?
Children are so vulnerable to being groomed, to having their boundaries slowly pushed down in a way they cannot identify themselves at the time. That's why trusted adults are supposed to work together to keep them safe.