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£15 per pupil for teacher present is way too much!

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Watermelon221 · 02/07/2021 12:59

We’ll just that really.

Quite prepared to be told Iabu and also I know that I don’t have to join in with the collection!

But £15 x 30 children is over £400! Even if only 20 give money it is £300!

What sort of planet are some parents on? It’s the same every year and I shouldn’t be surprised after 3 children!

Someone on the class WhatsApp group suggests a collection. Everyone agrees it’s a good idea (me included). Then some bright spark suggests everyone gives £15 (£20 was mentioned initially!). Then everyone says they’ve transferred it over and you are suddenly stuck with 3 choices:

  1. Opt out and buy own present. Probably something the teacher doesn’t want or need.
  1. Text and say I’m only transferring £5. (Not because I can’t afford it but because it’s plenty and only supposed to be a token gesture! But then is that fair on others who pay £15?
  1. Suck it up and pay it!

Our school is in a fairly middle class area but attracts children from a fairly mixed bag of different areas. I imagine many will struggle to afford this- especially those with other kids in different year groups- is it me or is it totally tone deaf of these parents to suggest this and not just pay what you can afford? It is supposed to be a kind gesture of thanks from the class not enough to find a mini break ffs!!

OP posts:
FlyingBattie · 03/07/2021 01:54

God I hate competitive gratitude.
Just get the kids to make a card. Maybe chocolates etc.
£15 in insanity.

thebattleofschrutefarms · 03/07/2021 01:58

@AppleKatie

Opt out and get your child to make a card (you write something heartfelt in it) and then stick a £5 Costa voucher in it. Guarantee the teacher will understand why you’ve done it and be grateful 😂
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