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To ask if nose piercings on men are naff

149 replies

Clappingforjoy · 25/06/2021 20:54

Because my 20 year old ds is getting one tomorrow and I can't talk him.out of it.
Opinions pls.

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Thekormachameleon · 25/06/2021 21:27

"Common"
"Lower class"
"Naff and awful"

Some of you need to get unstuck from up your own arses

Op I love a nose piercing on a man. Also, it's removable and heals super quickly. Leave him be

Blueskytoday06 · 25/06/2021 21:29

Definitely

Squirrelblanket · 25/06/2021 21:30

They look awful on both men and women.

Samcro · 25/06/2021 21:31

@Clappingforjoy

Thought it was too feminine
Really, have you been living under a rock. My adult ds has piercings, you get used to them.
MoreMorelos · 25/06/2021 21:31

My DS 18 has one, he likes it so it's all that matters (I have mine done but don't wear it anymore)

TedMullins · 25/06/2021 21:32

No, I think they look good if it matches the rest of his style. I’d rather be friends with a man with a nose ring than someone who thinks it’s ‘feminine’ (so what if it is?) lower class or common.

Midnightballerina · 25/06/2021 21:33
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bogglin · 25/06/2021 21:33

I think it looks very attractive on some men. The same way piercings look very attractive on some women. Each to their own. Leave him to it.

WildRosie · 25/06/2021 21:33

I thought only bulls had rings in their noses.

DroopyClematis · 25/06/2021 21:35

They're naff, unless for cultural reasons.
Which is why they're naff... cultural appropriation.

Cwenthryth · 25/06/2021 21:36

Too feminine?!? That’s pretty offensive OP.

I think they can’t be pretty hot. It’s personal taste, nothing to do with class, sex or gender.

55378OO8 · 25/06/2021 21:36

I know a few guys with them (straight guys, as it happens) . Nose piercings haven't ever been particularly fashionable for men, so the men I know with them tend to be fairly unconventional with their own sense of style. For that reason I think it looks good on them.

Cwenthryth · 25/06/2021 21:36

Sorry CAN be pretty hot!!! Fucking autocorrect.

HeronLanyon · 25/06/2021 21:37

I think they are naff (this is your word op).
They’re not so naff that my judgment goes out the window - I’ve met some men’s sun women with all sorts of piercings and they cover the whole spectrum from really lovely to tossers. Nothing to do with piercings.
I do think they look awful though.

Realitea · 25/06/2021 21:37

Lenny Kravitz looks good in one

CosyAcorn · 25/06/2021 21:38

I think they look naff on everyone but I wouldn't try to dissuade someone from having one, because clearly a lot of people do like them and they don't do any harm.

Echobelly · 25/06/2021 21:38

Well, Lenny Kravitz certainly pulls it off!

Either way, it's your son's choice and he's old enough to make it without your interference.

Clappingforjoy · 25/06/2021 21:39

Okay I sort of stand corrected lol

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ArnoldJudasRimmer · 25/06/2021 21:39

I don't like them on anyone but that's just me. It's up to him if he wants one, not really something you should be talking him out of at 20, if he's paying for it himself.

Samcro · 25/06/2021 21:45

Trouble is if you say don't do it, he will want it more.
Next it will be a visit to the tattooist.
I just paid for my ds firt tatt, that way i knew he would get it done at a decent place. Didn't get told about the piercings lol

FaceyRomford · 25/06/2021 21:47

Totally, totally naff.

StoneofDestiny · 25/06/2021 21:51

I think they look awful on anybody and certainly ugh on a man, but I guess if he wants one, he must think differently

Clappingforjoy · 25/06/2021 21:51

Tbh I would prefer a tattoo

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RaginaFalangi · 25/06/2021 21:53

Look silly but his body his choice

MoreMorelos · 25/06/2021 21:56

@WildRosie

I thought only bulls had rings in their noses.
Are you my Dad?!?! He said the same to me in 1994, wasn't funny then either
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