My friend has just got a kitten who is 4 months old.
She lives at home with her Dad (my friend not the kitten)
Anyway I said in a couple of weeks shall we do lunch ..her response
" I won't be able to because of the kitten,I can't leave her,I have to pop to the shops when she's asleep"
So I said "your dads home and lunch is only a hour"
She said "no she's too fast for him and we leave the patio doors open"
So I suggested maybe closing the doors for a hour
She said "I have responsibilities now and this is my life at home with her"
I mean surely you wouldn't let a kitten rule your life ?
Imagine if she had a job ..would she never go to work again.
Aibu to think this is bat shit ?