I don’t think it’s a female thing at all but I do think, if you really do struggle with maths, like me, then it can be an impossible barrier in life. People with even limited ability cannot understand what it’s like.
My school experiences of maths really put me off as well. We were given class positions which were read out and I was always, always last. Teachers would try and get me to answer questions in front of the class which I would invariably fail to answer. They thought I wasn’t trying but I was. I just didn’t have a conceptual grasp of it at any level. If I read a question to myself I just wouldn’t get it. Anything with names in it, such as Jane has 16 sweets etc I would get hung up on wondering who Jane was, why did she have the sweets.? How come she had 16 etc. A year in American school meant going to Math Lab for extra help. Dreadful and humiliating.
I got an F at GCSE and then a number of E’s at resit. It stopped me going into teaching. I wanted to be an English teacher. Fair enough though. I get that. Turns out my mum couldn’t do maths either. She didn’t pass any maths qualifications but she taught English and Drama at a Grammar School all her life. You didn’t need it then. My brother was totally fine with maths btw. I was good at sport, English, History and Drama.
Roll on to my kids. I was 100% positive about it. I was not going to pass on any attitude at all. Said I enjoyed it, it was fun, interesting, useful and enabled you to do loads of things, including things that you wouldn’t think needed it. Kept my ineptitude quiet until it became obvious at about Year 4 homework. I said that maths and numbers were beautiful, which I do think they are in a way. Super positive about it along with everything else. My daughter struggled so much at maths that eventually at secondary they tested for dyscalculia. She had traits and was given longer for GCSE. She worked so so hard and got a 3, missing the grade by 19 points. Resat again and got 3, 2, 2. The only reason she got a 4 was in her A-Level year they gave the predicted grades and for resits the school automatically predicted a pass. Otherwise it would have stopped her getting into Uni for her BA Illustration with Art Foundation year which she is excelling at.
I think if there was an extra Practical Maths or even lower level GCSE type paper, lower than the existing lower paper or with emphasis on different topics, that ran alongside, not instead of, the regular GCSE then it would stop the detrimental effects of dyscalculia, or may at least lessen those effects and allow some people to move forward. I think though that the normal GCSE syllabus should be taught and all should sit it too, boys AND girls.
Sorry for long post btw.