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To ask when you had your first French kiss?

205 replies

smersh84 · 19/05/2021 19:40

I was chatting to my friends earlier and some surprised me as they couldn't even remember!
Mine was when I was 15 with another boy my age but not from my old school.

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Zotter · 19/05/2021 23:02

17

Naz2009 · 19/05/2021 23:02

@newtb I'm so sorry to read this, I myself am I abuse survivor and I was the same age as you.

wigwoo · 19/05/2021 23:03
  1. I was 'so in love with him' and he asked to kiss me and half way through told me I'm 'supposed to open my mouth' Blush
CorianderBee · 20/05/2021 00:08

13ish

Acornacorn · 20/05/2021 00:30

I was 11/12. He left the school a few months later. It was awful washing machine-like. I just looked him up on fb! Same eyes, 25years later.

Nohugstoday25 · 20/05/2021 02:34

Same time I first had sex 🤣 14.
I hate fence missing though and haven’t done it since I was about 17.

StarlightLady · 20/05/2021 04:15

With a boy the same age at around 12 or 13, appropriately in the Luxembourg Gardens in Paris; l liked it.

At 14 or so, with a couple of other girls, we used to call it “kissing practice” allegedly to make us good kissers for the boys. Looking back, l have a different take on it now. 😉

Floofboopsnootandbork · 20/05/2021 05:59

I was in year 9 so must’ve been 13 or 14.

mrsbitaly · 20/05/2021 06:57

I was 15 and I remember my face feeling very wet where he didn't even touch my lips just sucked my face - I've never forgotten it lol

LagneyandCasey · 20/05/2021 07:18

On a school residential to France aged 14. His name was Rob and he was the same age. He was from a school in Manchester staying in the same hotel as my school and we did the same activities. I was obsessed with his accent Grin

He kissed me on a bench in the gardens across the road from the hotel. It was OK but I found it absolutely thrilling when he grabbed my hand and held it as we walked around. We had about 3 days of glorious hand holding before the trip ended.

We wrote and had a few phone calls for a while then it fizzled out sadly. I have a photo of us together which is really sweet and makes me smile.

Whoopsies · 20/05/2021 07:28

I was 16, in a nightclub in Newquay. He asked me to go back to his hotel with him and I said no, turned out he was 22 and was horrified I was only 16. I didn't tell him he was my first kiss!! Don't regret it at all though!

EineReiseDurchDieZeit · 20/05/2021 12:39

@ilovesooty Grin Ancient aren't I? All the clubs I frequented long gone.

AiryFlyingFairy · 20/05/2021 14:12
  1. On a 1st date, boyfriend (aged 16) kissing me goodbye at end of our date (In public. In broad daylight too! ) I wasn't expecting his big tongue (Or any tongue). Not pleasant. It was too much, too soon. This has brought back that vivid memory. I wonder what happened to him since.....
SingingSands · 20/05/2021 17:34

15, on a beach at night under a sky filled with shooting stars... and it was wonderful. It's still my best kiss ever! Almost sounds made up, but I promise it isn't!

Twocanplay · 20/05/2021 17:54

15!

LaurieFairyCake · 20/05/2021 17:58

11

Blush - he'd learned from watching his older brother snog his girlfriend

Was quite taken by surprise Grin

89redballoons · 20/05/2021 18:02

14, at a gig with an older boy (man?) I had met online. Blush he was at university and I think he was at least 20! That sounds awful and it was pretty dodgy from his perspective I guess, but didn't go any further and I soon lost touch with him.

I remember thinking at the time that everyone I knew had been snogging boys for ages and the rest, so interesting to see from this thread that that was not the case. Not surprising now I think about it, though.

joystir59 · 20/05/2021 18:04

13 when sexual abuse started. I felt sick all day afterwards

ALongHardWinter · 20/05/2021 18:22

Quite late here at 17.

Craftycorvid · 20/05/2021 18:52
  1. ‘Twas grim. Like being snogged by a human car wash. Grin. I was in my 40s before I experienced a kiss that made the world stand still.
Original poster
smersh84 · 20/05/2021 18:54

@StarlightLady
funny how people here had their first frenchie actually in France!
haha yes I remember "practising" at 18 Wink

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mamaduckbone · 20/05/2021 18:59

Bleurhh! I was at a 13th birthday party and it was the older brother of a school friend whose name I thought I could remember but seem to have erased from my memory. All I can remember is he stank of garlic and 'Sealed with a Kiss' by Jason Donovan was playing. Hideous!

Moelwynbach · 20/05/2021 19:08

On the pub steps after a karaoke night when I was 15. He literally stuck his tongue in and out of my mouth we lasted five days after it.
He is married with two kids now. I was his first too his wife is aware of our previous "romance" 🤣

PaperMonster · 20/05/2021 19:15

11 at a New Years Eve bash - some Italian teenager just grabbed me and I was sucked in. It was terrifying.

StarlightLady · 20/05/2021 19:18

@smersh84 - Because of Dad’s job, l was brought up in Paris. So all my “firsts” were in France. Including my first soixante neuf!

I think the “practice” attitude was more relaxed there too.