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To ask when you had your first French kiss?

205 replies

smersh84 · 19/05/2021 19:40

I was chatting to my friends earlier and some surprised me as they couldn't even remember!
Mine was when I was 15 with another boy my age but not from my old school.

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smersh84 · 19/05/2021 20:23

@JackieTheFart just realised Spin the Bottle really? thought that was just in films?
anyone else actually play that?

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TuesdayRuby · 19/05/2021 20:23

I think I was 11/12. The boy proceeded to have an asthma attack and I had to go and run for his mum.
He came out as gay a few years later Grin. Not sure what that says about my kissing technique!

smersh84 · 19/05/2021 20:25

@PermanentTemporary
AwwwSmile

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looptheloopinahulahoop · 19/05/2021 20:26
  1. I can't even remember his name! I think he was about 18. I was staying with friends and we'd been to the pub (in the days when they were a bit less concerned about checking age although I'd probably not drunk any alcohol as I didn't like it then) and my friend was driving home, he and I were sitting in the back and he snogged me. I am afraid it was yuck.

I did a lot better with my first foray to fourth base at 19. He was pretty good in bed actually (as well as everything else - one of those super-talented overachievers, I really shouldn't have let him slip through my fingers in some respects!)

looptheloopinahulahoop · 19/05/2021 20:26

[quote smersh84]@JackieTheFart just realised Spin the Bottle really? thought that was just in films?
anyone else actually play that?[/quote]
Yes when I was 14.

Idiotathome79 · 19/05/2021 20:26

15 with my best mates older brother

Darbs76 · 19/05/2021 20:28

11, first year of secondary

smersh84 · 19/05/2021 20:29

@looptheloopinahulahoop
how does that even come about?
who suggests it? who agrees?
I'm genuinely curious?

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traumatisednoodle · 19/05/2021 20:29

13? 14? not very memorable I'm afraid. Ues played spin the bottle all the time, then truth or dare, strip poker and "I have never".
Happy days Daffodil

traumatisednoodle · 19/05/2021 20:30

looptheloopinahulahoop
how does that even come about?
who suggests it? who agrees?
I'm genuinely curious?

A bunch of horny 14 year old curious about other peoples bodies ?

smersh84 · 19/05/2021 20:33

@traumatisednoodle
guess you had more bold/adventurous friends than I did
I would be open to playing now but wouldn't dare to mention it as a anxious kid

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Awwlookatmybabyspider · 19/05/2021 20:35

I’m 45 and still never been kissed🤣🤣

Pinkylemons · 19/05/2021 20:36

16 at a house party 😂. Felt so grown up afterwards!

polkadotpjs · 19/05/2021 20:36

When I was 19 on. French campsite. He was called Philippe then known as lizard tongue thereafter

OrangeRug · 19/05/2021 20:36
  1. It was sloppy and disgusting.
Sparklingbrook · 19/05/2021 20:37
  1. In a nightclub in Birmingham, he was actually someone from the group I'd gone with but was 2 years older than me. I thought about it for days after but it was a one off (with him!).
coffeepleeease · 19/05/2021 20:38

17

LST · 19/05/2021 20:38

I was 12 or 13. He was my boyfriend and me and my friends had just watched his (terrible) band at a community centre.

merryhouse · 19/05/2021 20:39

19, slightly pissed, by the kitchen window

Kiss was fine - relationship would have been much better stopping there (not his fault, I hasten to add)

Camomila · 19/05/2021 20:39

16, we went out for about a month and he used to buy me frappuccinos in starbucks Smile

Iminaglasscaseofemotion · 19/05/2021 20:39

15, but shortly after that the virginity was gone aswell 🤣

traumatisednoodle · 19/05/2021 20:40

I think it was kind of just what you did with boys.
Someone picks up a bottle and says "who wants to play?"

Snorkelface · 19/05/2021 20:40

Another one for Spin the Bottle. I was 14, he was 16. It was a marathon snogging session. We met again by chance 30 odd years later through a work colleague, I only knew it was him because he had a really distinctive surname, I wouldn't have recognised him otherwise and he didn't seem to recognise me. I spent two hours in a very grown up meeting fidgeting and trying not to stare at him.

Iminaglasscaseofemotion · 19/05/2021 20:41

Infact I don't know why I'm laughing, he was 20 and the story after that isn't the happiest.

DinosaurDiana · 19/05/2021 20:41

16 and it was unexpected !
I went in for a kiss goodnight on the lips and he stuck his tongue in, I was horrified. But I let him do it again next time !!!