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To ask when you had your first French kiss?

205 replies

smersh84 · 19/05/2021 19:40

I was chatting to my friends earlier and some surprised me as they couldn't even remember!
Mine was when I was 15 with another boy my age but not from my old school.

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smersh84 · 19/05/2021 22:06

@Gwenhwyfar
so I don't understand what do you do instead of tongues?
I may have to make a new poll to find out
what snogging means to everyone else

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irregularegular · 19/05/2021 22:07
  1. And it was amazing. I was completely and utterly tear-his-clothes off turned on and went for it! He'd kissed me the year before (it was at a summer activity thing) and though I thought he was very nice looking I was nervous and self-conscious had no idea what to do with myself. The difference in my appetite for sex between one year and the next was incredible. He was about one year older.
19lottie82 · 19/05/2021 22:09

11

christyt114 · 19/05/2021 22:11

Age 15 during a slow dance at the local disco.

tothinkyesitis · 19/05/2021 22:12

29 and still haven’t somehow!

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smersh84 · 19/05/2021 22:15

@tothinkyesitis
please tell me how that ends up happening?
have you gone to the next erm- base?

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MissLucyEyelesbarrow · 19/05/2021 22:15
  1. Random snog: we weren't going out or anything,

I got the hiccups due to nerves, and then got the giggles horrendously. We are still friends, so I guess he has just about forgiven me.

Yellowcrockpot · 19/05/2021 22:19

Of course, I wasn't including practicing on my mirror after reading sugar magazine.
Along with dialogue Blush

Yellowcrockpot · 19/05/2021 22:21

Sadly, I now want a good snog with dp, but after me trying to do a beyonce grind, whilst showing him where I put the frying pan, and getting rejected, I dont think hes up for reliving his teenager years Grin

JustSaying101 · 19/05/2021 22:22

12 or 13. It was hideous!

Youaremysunshine09 · 19/05/2021 22:24

I honestly can't even remember, I would say I was about 12 though

HarrietHairbrush · 19/05/2021 22:24

I was 13

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smersh84 · 19/05/2021 22:25

@Yellowcrockpot I'm sorry
Sad
why is it most blokes end up bored of snogs?

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tothinkyesitis · 19/05/2021 22:27

[quote smersh84]@tothinkyesitis
please tell me how that ends up happening?
have you gone to the next erm- base?[/quote]
Nope, nothing at all - think there’s reasons why, but do feel life is rather leaving me behind !

MadKittenWoman · 19/05/2021 22:27

13, I think. Used to love a good snog.

Gwenhwyfar · 19/05/2021 22:29

[quote smersh84]@Gwenhwyfar
so I don't understand what do you do instead of tongues?
I may have to make a new poll to find out
what snogging means to everyone else[/quote]
I asked the other person to explain because I can't.
If you saw a couple snogging in the corner, you wouldn't say they were snogging because they weren't using their tongues so you'd definitely see it as the same thing from outside.

Justbeenjabbed · 19/05/2021 22:30

@smersh84 how did what happen, the kiss, or going so long without one? 😆

The kiss- alcohol!
The delay- shyness. And likely asexuality. Jury’s still out on that one.

Justbeenjabbed · 19/05/2021 22:32

... am I the only one here who finds french kissing rather disgusting?

Graffitiqueen · 19/05/2021 22:39

I can't even remember! At secondary school discos (Ayrshire Scotland) we always played a game called city gates. Girls in pairs made a circle with their hands making arches. Boys went through the circle of arches. You kissed who you caught when the music stopped.

Sometimes a peck, sometimes a full on snog depending on who you caught.

Consequently has snogged most of the okish boys by the end of first year!!

Lb1204 · 19/05/2021 22:41

@PowerhouseOfTheCell

12. As a dare with my boy best friend, who later came out as gay (not due to the kiss though!)
Same!
jackstini · 19/05/2021 22:44

I was 12. It was my first kiss, unexpected and I hated it - very sloppy!

Didn't kiss again until I was 14 (then did it a lot!)

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smersh84 · 19/05/2021 22:45

@Graffitiqueen
wow! thats crazy
wish id gone to school there
where were the teachers? haha

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Graffitiqueen · 19/05/2021 22:52

[quote smersh84]@Graffitiqueen
wow! thats crazy
wish id gone to school there
where were the teachers? haha[/quote]
The teachers were supervising!!!!! I remember my maths teacher asking us if we had winched someone (snogged) or got a lumber (boyfriend).

Naz2009 · 19/05/2021 22:55

@KingPong it was just a kiss or more stuff happened. You really don't seem happy about it.
If you feel there was something forceful and you clearly had made your feelings and objections. Speak up now, it's never too late.
Sorry if I've misunderstood and said anything wrong.

JackieTheFart · 19/05/2021 22:56

@smersh84

It was at a ‘house party’ of a friend, he was one of the only boys from my primary. I was a foot taller than him Grin when the bottle landed on us we went outside in the garden for a snog which like I said was gross.

My friend Clare was practically the only friend I had who was the child of a single mother who worked a lot, meaning she had a lot of gatherings at hers where we got up to (innocent) shenanigans. Lots of karaoke Grin