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To ask when you had your first French kiss?

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smersh84 · 19/05/2021 19:40

I was chatting to my friends earlier and some surprised me as they couldn't even remember!
Mine was when I was 15 with another boy my age but not from my old school.

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EarringsandLipstick · 19/05/2021 21:28

@VettiyaIruken

First and last at a bonfire party when I was about 14. It was absolutely disgusting and made me feel nauseated. I made my "tongues stay in their owners mouths" rule that night. Just remembering it turns my stomach.
What???

You've never had a French kiss since?

I mean, I'm out of practice but God I hope one day ... done right I think it's amazing. I can't even imagine progressing to further intimacy without French kissing.

Echobelly · 19/05/2021 21:30

With a female friend when I was 14 'practising' them at a sleepover! We paired up then took turns 'frenchieing' with the bedcover over my head.

First time I kissed a bloke like that was 3 years later at an indie club on New Year's Eve Grin

spacegirl86 · 19/05/2021 21:30

Glad to hear so many similar stories to mine. I was 12 with my boyfriend who was also my best friend for years. It was disgusting. He got upset when I told someone that so said I bit his tongue 🤦🏻‍♀️. He later turned out to be gay too.

So successful all round! Confused. I then went to a girls school for three years so no kissing until sixth form as I was way too shy to meet boys out of school.

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smersh84 · 19/05/2021 21:31

@therocinante
my first was great too lol
I was hooked from then on and
I still love a good french kiss

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MirandaMarple · 19/05/2021 21:32
Gwenhwyfar · 19/05/2021 21:32

15 for first snog, but no tongues, so does it count as a French kiss?

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smersh84 · 19/05/2021 21:35

@Gwenhwyfar
I don't think it counts as a snog if there's no tongues
isn't that right?

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FlyLight · 19/05/2021 21:36

Was about 13, was pretty grim. Really not a fan of French kissing. Don't get me wrong, a passionate snog is great but standing there with your mouths wide open poking tongues around while everything gets more salivary is horrible!

Gwenhwyfar · 19/05/2021 21:38

[quote smersh84]@Gwenhwyfar
I don't think it counts as a snog if there's no tongues
isn't that right?[/quote]
What was I doing all that time then? Wasn't a closed mouth kiss.

EarringsandLipstick · 19/05/2021 21:38

[quote smersh84]@Gwenhwyfar
I don't think it counts as a snog if there's no tongues
isn't that right?[/quote]
That'd be my take on it too.

Certainly in my circles it was always tongue, I'm not sure we realised you could kiss any other way! 😂

It was silly, as I hated all the random kissing I only started to like it when it was someone I knew, and fancied.

Gwenhwyfar · 19/05/2021 21:38

"You've never had a French kiss since?

I mean, I'm out of practice but God I hope one day ... done right I think it's amazing. I can't even imagine progressing to further intimacy without French kissing."

There are whole areas of the world where it's not done.

EarringsandLipstick · 19/05/2021 21:39

Wasn't a closed mouth kiss.

I'm very dim. But what's a kiss that's not closed-mouth, but also is no-tongues?

How does that work?

EarringsandLipstick · 19/05/2021 21:40

There are whole areas of the world where it's not done.

Really Gwenhwyfar?

I'd no idea!

FlyLight · 19/05/2021 21:41

You can have a passionate snog without tongues!

VettiyaIruken · 19/05/2021 21:44

Nope. Never. In fact, even thinking about it is making me feel ill. It was the most awful, slimy, saliva dripping, invasive experience. He had me pinned against the barn and his gob was wide open as he sent his fat slug in riding a wave of his saliva. It was revolting.

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smersh84 · 19/05/2021 21:44

@FlyLight
I dont LOL!

seriously tho which @Gwenhwyfar areas though?
obvs not France.

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itsnotmeitsu · 19/05/2021 21:45

With a French boy, in France, and I think I was around 14. It was one of the best kisses of my life.

EarringsandLipstick · 19/05/2021 21:49

@FlyLight

You can have a passionate snog without tongues!
I'm being serious but I honestly don't know how?

What do you, um, do, without the tongues element?

noblegreenk · 19/05/2021 21:51
  1. It was for a dare with a lad from school.
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smersh84 · 19/05/2021 21:55

@FlyLight

You can have a passionate snog without tongues!
if I'm kissing with an open mouth then tongues will naturally come into play why wouldn't they? done right its fab!
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ilovesooty · 19/05/2021 21:56

@EineReiseDurchDieZeit

In a Nightclub called Majestic in Leeds
Was that before or after the bingo hall?
Gwenhwyfar · 19/05/2021 21:57

@FlyLight

You can have a passionate snog without tongues!
Yes. I haven't done anything for so many years now, I can't explain it. But a snog is not necessarily tonguing.
EarringsandLipstick · 19/05/2021 21:57

if I'm kissing with an open mouth then tongues will naturally come into play
why wouldn't they? done right its fab!

I'm with you smer

Glad I'm not the only deviant out there 😜

Gwenhwyfar · 19/05/2021 21:58

[quote smersh84]@FlyLight
I dont LOL!

seriously tho which @Gwenhwyfar areas though?
obvs not France.[/quote]
Parts of the Far East afaik.

Stressedout65 · 19/05/2021 22:00

14 with a French boy in France