To be recognised as a woman or girl means too often to be expected to defer to men and there can be difficulties if you don't.
To have to decide whether to let the persistent men down gently and they may not get the message or be more direct and risk aggression.
To be expected to limit your life in various ways to minimise risk. Whether you do or not is another question, you know if you don't and something happens it's your fault.
To be systemically economically disadvantaged due to a big mix of things- personal, social, government actions.
To be an outsider still in lots of workplaces.
To have it assumed that your looks are of extreme importance to you, also babies, getting a man, etc etc
And on and on.
The arguments around the cis topic seem to come mainly from trans women. Trans men seem pretty quiet.
And I wonder if it's just another male pov thing.
To go from conforming to non conforming male or trans woman must be very scary. You will lose privilege and be more exposed to male violence.
This is labelled cis privilege and simply applied to women as well. When it really isn't the same for us
All the posts about being scared to walk at night, worried about or experiencing sexual assault. Can cis people even imagine that?
Well women, yes of course. That's our lives. Men, not so much. Bit of a shock.
Yet in the end it is women who are being told we are privileged etc. I don't see men on Twitter etc getting the same responses.
So the age old dynamic is in place. Leave men alone to do their thing. Women are always in the wrong.