If you tell me what those assumptions were I'm happy to be corrected
First you claimed I thought single parents were ‘worth nothing’ and that I favoured married people, when I told you that wasn’t the case you then picked my anti abortion stance to label me:
- someone who dictates to others when they can and can’t make a decision (by doing what exactly..?
I literally never talk to anyone re abortion)
- someone who doesn’t care about others (absolute bollocks), you wrote ‘diddly doesnt about that’ and ‘she only cares about her views on what she has decided women should do’ in response to that posters comment.
A comment that I very deliberately had not answered because I had already made my viewpoint clear and did not want to repeat it in response to that poster because the way the comment was worded they had obviously gone through a dreadful, traumatic thing and I felt they would be very upset if I responded.
But yes, I obviously don’t care at all
That must be why I repeatedly reiterated that i didn’t intend to upset anyone when that poster then followed up saying they were offended by my use of two emojis.
- That I don’t give a stuff for anyone’s feelings (untrue)
- That I haven’t undergone any form of trauma (at least that is how I interpreted it and you know what? That is untrue too) as you wrote ‘lucky then for not having to have gone through those experiences’
- not a decent person (I most definitely am a decent person)
You made your views clear
Yes I did.
My view that I personally see a developing pregnancy as a baby (note that I didn’t present that as ‘fact’, just that that is how I see it whereas others see it as a ball of cells or whatever) and that I therefore couldn’t agree with it no matter how awful the circumstances surrounding the pregnancy.
Posters them arrived to tell me how dreadful I was for being so mean to you
That is their opinion but I can tell you i very much felt under attack from you, and to a lesser extent that poster but more so you.
It is a very divisive subject and my opinion is the minority, I am aware of that and whenever I have been asked about the subject inevitably people don’t like what they hear and tend to get aggressive.
I do not therefore typically talk about my view on it.
Indeed, when I commented I was commenting about the party, not abortion.
Had it been an abortion thread I would not have commented.
I at no point insulted anyone (the same cannot be said for you) nor engaged in hate speech nor set out to upset anyone and when it was clear that poster was upset I reiterated many, many times that I absolutely did not intend to upset anyone and that I wasn’t minimising or joking about sexual abuse.
and said her.experience sharing was 'inappropriate'
That isn’t actually quite what they said.
didn't seem to give a monkeys about her
It’s a very rare woman that isn’t angered and horrified and sickened by sexual abuse (or any kind of violence) towards a fellow woman.
I think you are making incorrect assumptions again there.
Incidentally, my comment wasn't to you so I'm not sure if needed your input
That’s okay, I’ve given it to you anyway.