Husband won't share things with me

[Roomuma]

Dh said he won't share the netflix password with me because I'm a 'blabber mouth'.
This led onto him saying that he doesn't share loads of things with me because he worries I'll talk about it with someone else.
I am quite an open person with certain people (best friends, my mum etc.) and he is not like this. However when he asks me to keep things private I do try my best, a couple of times I have accidentally let small things slip but these have been genuine mistakes. I supposed this is what he means by blabber mouth and I understand how he feels but all the same I feel like I'm being treated like a child.

Looks like a ZOMBIE woodlouse. Sex unknown. 🧟‍♀️🧟‍♂️

Op, ‘trying my best’ wouldn’t cut it for me if I was your DH. Do better.

A zombie egg?

You really need to control yourself. I would not want any kind of relationship with someone that cannot control what they say.

However when he asks me to keep things private I do try my best

Do or do not. There is no try.

@Roomuma

Dh said he won't share the netflix password with me because I'm a 'blabber mouth'. This led onto him saying that he doesn't share loads of things with me because he worries I'll talk about it with someone else. I am quite an open person with certain people (best friends, my mum etc.) and he is not like this. However when he asks me to keep things private I do try my best, a couple of times I have accidentally let small things slip but these have been genuine mistakes. I supposed this is what he means by blabber mouth and I understand how he feels but all the same I feel like I'm being treated like a child.

Learn to keep your mouth shut then.

Zombie thread or not (it's a wood Louce OP)

I'm kinda intrigued on how the keeping things to yourself situ is progressing ?

@Roomuma

Anybody recognise this bug? It’s all dead and dried up but I found it when cleaning my children’s bedroom.

Looks like a woolly bear (I.e. the larvae of a carpet beetle).

Get some carpet beetle spray from Wilkos (£4.50) and spray it around after clearing the carpets and vacuuming everywhere.

@Momicrone

God he sounds hard work petty and controlling

It’s just a bug

@Metalguru22

Op's ZOMBIED her thread with a bug.

I think the OP tried to bug her husband to find out his secrets, but got a bit confused…

Gossip isn't really the same as passwords. Passwords is security.

I don't think that because I told my partner something and they've told their mum, that that means they will share passwords they are completely different, and I'm not sure why you would share the passwords, how would it just slip out?

So YANBU.

@Metalguru22

Op's ZOMBIED her thread with a bug.

Oh my, just seen the bug thing

You need to listen to what you are being told. The person closest to you doesn’t find you trustworthy. You can’t be relied on to keeps things private. You share information which isn’t yours to share. It’s not difficult - I’ve never had a problem with accidentally blabbing various confidential things - you just aren’t taking it seriously.

I found out one of my friends was parroting back private conversations we had to other people so she now knows absolutely nothing that’s going on that I wouldn’t shout from a megaphone. Literally nothing at all - I don’t trust her!

The Netflix account is against one household so does he think you would share it with lots of people?

He obviously doesn’t trust your discretion and this is something you need to work on, sorry.

🤣🤣🤣

it's a woodlouse btw

Try starting another thread.

Hi @Roomuma,

We are going to close this thread as it is an old thread that seems to have quietened down and your new post is on a new topic.

If you'd love to keep the conversation around your new post flowing, feel free to start a new thread!

Best,
Imani
MNHQ