DH annoyed that I wouldn't have sex with him last night.

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I don't know if aibu but DH has been in a foul mood since he got up and had a bit of a nasty tone to his voice so I asked him what was up and he snapped at me that he was really annoyed that he'd been hinting for sex last night and he didn't get any.

For some reason I feel fuming. We have regular sex so it's not like he isn't getting any - it just feels really entitled.

I don't like or dislike men or women as vast groups of lemmings

No, you said on the other thread that you 'prefer' men over women. It's really quite obvious by your posts that this is your stance.

No. They just use sex as a way of control. So if they fancy sex but they feel he needs to be brought in line, they withhold sex. Telling him this is what happens if you do something I don't like

I don't have sex with my DH either if he's pissed me off. He doesn't want sex with me either if I've pissed him off. How is it 'controlling'?

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No. They just use sex as a way of control. So if they fancy sex but they feel he needs to be brought in line, they withhold sex. Telling him this is what happens if you do something I don't like*

I don't have sex with my DH either if he's pissed me off. He doesn't want sex with me either if I've pissed him off. How is it 'controlling'?*

Ok so let's say you want a new car. Your DH says no not enough money for that at the mo. So you say well I'm not having second with you till you get me one.

That's not the best example with the car but it's that kind of thing - and that is manipulation.

I meant not having sex with you until ...

Look, the OP doesn't fancy her husband at all. His advances are repulsive. Beginning of the end IMO.