Well. This thread is a revelation. And I think I need to give DH a medal. I had no idea that so many women didn't enjoy it, and that lots of men are bad at it, or don't enjoy giving it.
To be fair, as I find oral such an intimate act, DH is the only man who has ever given oral to me. Thank god he is extremely good at it! But it does mean that I've reached the age of nearly 50 and just assumed that it was an easy thing for all men to get right, I guess, and that they all enjoy it.
I wasn't a virgin when I met him but had only had casual relationships before him, one nighters etc and oral wasn't something I was comfortable doing with people I don't know well. So I've never had the unfortunate experience of bad oral sex performed on me. I can't even imagine how that feels. I'm aware of how smug this sounds. 
I'm not smug, I honestly just had no idea.
No idea that not all women liked it either. Although DH has told me that a couple of his ex-partners weren't a fan. I couldn't believe it when he told me.
It just goes to show you that a good sexual partnership depends on how well both partners go together, sexually.
Perimenopause is changing things though, sadly. Oh my god, the hair growth down there. I can't help but think of Sleeping Beauty lying in wait for her prince in the middle of that thorny forest......bit of a passion killer. As is the involuntary wind......
Keeping it real!