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AIBU?

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To be disappointed that my favourite radio presenter does not look how he sounds

156 replies

KatherineofOregon · 21/03/2021 17:31

I have recently found a radio presenter that i love listening to. His voice is like catnip to me and he makes me giggle while i am doing my daily work. I listen to all his shows now. I decided today, to follow him on Twitter and saw his picture.

He is not what i imagined him to be. Based on his voice i had an image in my mind of what he looked like. I am slightly and mildly disappointed. AIBU to be so bothered by this?

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KatherineofOregon · 21/03/2021 17:53

" @QuidditchQueen Tom Swarbrick sounds very fit tho’ not seen pic of him/is it him"

No, not him but he is every bit as gorgeous as he sounds! I have seen his image and he matches his voice.

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KatherineofOregon · 21/03/2021 17:55

".What is the point of this thread 🙄"

It's more about my irrational disappointment.

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AndreaMarteau · 21/03/2021 17:55

It's got to be Ken Bruce.

Don't understand why you won't name them either way though.

Teflondreams · 21/03/2021 17:56

Eddie Mair has a gorgeous voice and seems a lovely man. Doesn’t look like I imagined though.

DoubleHelix79 · 21/03/2021 17:58

Nor a radio presenter but the voice of The National's lead singer gives me goosebumps. I wish i hadn't looked him up though - looks nothing like I imagined.

Lubiluxe · 21/03/2021 17:59

Why would you offend them?

I wasn't expecting Owen Farell to sound the way he sounded when I first heard him speak. It isn't offensive

nokidshere · 21/03/2021 18:00

because i don't want to be unkind. Their voice is lovely though!

What's unkind about finding out someone's look doesn't match the picture you painted In your head?

I was totally gobsmacked when a lovely online friend who I'd been chatting to for years via typed message finally spoke to me on the phone - she sounded nothing like (the sound my brain assigned to her) her pictures and chat.

She laughed and said 'everyone says that'.

KatherineofOregon · 21/03/2021 18:02

Matt Dillion is the only other voice i have ever heard , that gives me goosebumps. He does though look, like he sounds.

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Smileyaxolotl1 · 21/03/2021 18:02

Andreamarteau
I immediately thought Ken Bruce too. As a young teen I thought he sounded like he was tall, dark and handsome.

ILoveAllRainbowsx · 21/03/2021 18:03

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Authenticchicken · 21/03/2021 18:04

I feel like this sometimes about The Archers' characters.

WantChewbaccaForGood · 21/03/2021 18:07

I assumed that Rick Astley looked like Tom Selleck, based on his voice (going back a long time!).
On the other hand, I was told I sounded like Melinda messenger once- I certainly don't look like her.

Foolingaround · 21/03/2021 18:07

I thought James O’B too, I was so gutted when I saw him. Tom Swarbs is quite good looking I think (not in a pervy thigh rubbing way)

PastMyBestBeforeDate · 21/03/2021 18:09

I felt like this about Charlotte Green (R4). Totally different person in my head.
The Archers too Authentic

Lentilbaby · 21/03/2021 18:09

Come on OP, you can't leave us hanging! Grin

TakeYourFinalPosition · 21/03/2021 18:10

I was sure this was going to be about Greg James Grin

picknmix1984 · 21/03/2021 18:11

I'm not sure why you just won't say. Have you just come on here to annoy people?

Blacktothepink · 21/03/2021 18:14

Come on...spill

ragtimeloves · 21/03/2021 18:14

Is it JVS?

CounsellorTroi · 21/03/2021 18:15

I've always thought Andy Hamilton has an absolutely gorgeous voice. He didn't look like I imagined him though when I first saw him.

Moonstone1234 · 21/03/2021 18:18

It’s Nick Ferrari. Looks like Billy Bunter in real life. I love his show but he doesn’t look how he sounds

Foolingaround · 21/03/2021 18:21

@Moonstone1234

It’s Nick Ferrari. Looks like Billy Bunter in real life. I love his show but he doesn’t look how he sounds
I think he does! He was reading out all the abudive tweets the other day about his looks. He seems to have a thick skin.
QuidditchQueen · 21/03/2021 18:23

Interesting line of thought.
I thought that about Mark Kermode

eddiemairswife · 21/03/2021 18:24

I'm a big fan of Eddie Mair Grin

QuidditchQueen · 21/03/2021 18:24

And Simon Mayo.