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For thinking what's the fucking point anymore?

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SapphireSeptember · 07/02/2021 16:01

"You shouldn't say that because you don't know what people are going though!"
Which is what a woman said to me when I asked her to pull up her mask yesterday. Right back at you. How the fuck does she think me and my colleagues feel having to deal with Covidiots like her on a daily basis? (I work in a supermarket.) She had her nose sticking out and kept pulling her mask away from her face, but because she's struggling and trying her best (so am I) that makes it acceptable? She didn't say she was exempt, and honestly if you're wearing a mask wear the damned thing properly! I then overheard her say 'How dare she say that to me?" to one of my colleagues in a really angry voice. I couldn't have been more fucking polite about it if I'd tried!
(I wish I'd said what I was thinking, that I dare because I'm more scared of getting Covid and dying from it than I am of shitty customers, but that might not have helped.)
I'm getting to the stage where I just want to lock myself in my house and refuse to come out until this is all over. I'm having panic attacks, my mental health is shot, and I don't feel like I can do this anymore. I'm also autistic and find certain things hard to cope with. The only reason I go to work is because I work with some lovely people who are keeping me sane at the moment.

Added to that the two women I was working with yesterday were agreeing with her. I spoke to my manager who confirmed I'd done the right thing, and when I told them that they got shirty with me too.

Then there was the fuckwit I dealt with on Friday. Again, I asked him to pull his mask up over his nose. "I don't think so' he said, and pulled one of those sunflower lanyards out of his shirt. Apparently he's exempt because he's autistic, but chooses to wear a mask. (See above, I was also standing next to a colleague of mine who's autistic.) I couldn't quite believe it, either wear one or don't, they don't work if your nose is sticking out, he was with a young woman who was wearing hers properly and another bloke who also had his nose sticking out. (I've noticed in my area it's men who are more likely to want to share their germs with everyone else.)

Then there are the people who walk in without wearing one at all, I was doing my shopping after work and three people, not a mask among them. I asked them if they had masks, the two women pulled theirs out and the bloke said he didn't have one, but of course he didn't bother going to where we keep the spare ones, he just carried on walking along. Twat.

OP posts:
MissMarpleDarling · 09/02/2021 00:45

Yanbu op. I always felt rude asking people if they're exempt but I've started asking nicely now. The amount of people that say no and that they just forgot their mask is bloody ridiculous.

Annabell80 · 09/02/2021 08:51

But if people followed the rules including wearing masks if they can then we would get our freedom back quicker and our children would have less disruption to their education.
But as this thread has shown most people can wear a mask but they don't care about infecting other people
I know not everyone can wear a mask but am shocked by how many selfish people there are.

DenisetheMenace · 09/02/2021 10:24

“Have you tried getting deliveries recently? I've been using Ocado for years and I'm struggling to get slots now.”

Our usual choice doesn’t deliver, so we’ve switched. There are plenty of other shops with slots available.

DenisetheMenace · 09/02/2021 10:25

That was replying to PinkSparklyPussyCat

DenisetheMenace · 09/02/2021 10:27

Lots available with Asda, delivery and click and collect.

blueberryporridge · 09/02/2021 23:40

@MrsBlue4

I think I would rather take the opinion of the World Health Organisation as to how the virus spreads. www.who.int/news-room/q-a-detail/coronavirus-disease-covid-19-how-is-it-transmitted

And if you think you won't catch it unless you stand beside an infected person for more than 15 mins, you are wrong. Even the link you have provided in evidence doesn't say that.

Rafagirl · 09/02/2021 23:59

@islockdownoveryet I completely agree with you.

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