I'd be in favour of all meetings being held by zoom in future. The ability to eject arseholes so effectively without needing to call the police is a major bonus. I've been subjected to some appalling chest beating behaviour in the past. And like Jackie Weaver, was accused of bullying on one occasion after having to stand up to it to allow the meeting to continue.
In the long run, it does the electorate no favours. Councils like this cannot get clerks to work for them, and then achieve nothing for the residents.
It is however not entirely an issue of sexism. They were as badly behaved to the previous, male, clerk. This is fairly sex neutral toxic entitlement, bullying everyone who doesn't agree with them.
Re the 'not attending a meeting because one hasn't been called' issue...
If a Cllr doesn't attend for 6 months, AND THE COUNCIL HASNT GIVEN THEM DISPENSATION, they automatically lose their seat.
In this case, a Cllr hadn't attended for five months, then Covid happened meaning the sixth month meeting didn't happen. So that is quite an odd situation to decide on, and could easily be strongly debated.
However this council didn't seem to be holding any virtual meetings. I'm not sure whether business was being done without full scrutiny by councillors and electorate- email decisions- or whether business wasn't being done. They would have been warned they 'must' get meetings organised.