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To have started on the gin already?

112 replies

billiondollarwhale · 05/02/2021 13:37

I'm dangerously bored.

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TheSpottedDog · 05/02/2021 13:38

YABU. I try to wait until at least 3pm before drinking through boredom. I’m eagerly watching the clock 😂

FTEngineerM · 05/02/2021 13:39

Jealous. Pregnant and would love a bottle of wine Sad

suziedoozy · 05/02/2021 13:40

I need some just to survive a morning with toddler & work..... luckily she is napping now

How long till I can have gin?!

Saladd0dger · 05/02/2021 13:47

No op. It’s lovely and sunny out I’m thinking if sitting in the garden and having a can myself. Enjoy your gin Gin

billiondollarwhale · 05/02/2021 14:14

@TheSpottedDog

YABU. I try to wait until at least 3pm before drinking through boredom. I’m eagerly watching the clock 😂
Too late
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billiondollarwhale · 05/02/2021 14:15

@Saladd0dger

No op. It’s lovely and sunny out I’m thinking if sitting in the garden and having a can myself. Enjoy your gin Gin
Thank you, I am. Sadly not in the garden. Sat in my kid's room watching him play
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ComtesseDeSpair · 05/02/2021 14:35

No idea if this is supposed to be “lighthearted” or not, but if serious, I don’t think drinking during the day (or anytime) on your own because you’re bored or lonely is a good precedent to start setting for yourself because it can all too quickly become routine and begin to lead to problematic associations with and triggers for drinking. Are you enjoying the taste of the gin and the situation you’re drinking it in, and the time to relax? Or are you just whiling away time and wanting to feel tipsy?

And I am someone who drinks “far too much” if you go by NHS guidelines so am not coming at this from the position of the many MNers who claim to only drink a thimble-full of Bailey's at Christmas and judge a regular alcoholic beverage.

FTEngineerM · 05/02/2021 14:40

Sat in my kid's room watching him play

Ah Confused - well that changes the tone a bit.

CottonSock · 05/02/2021 14:42

I've done it, then admitted I had a problem

RubyWooRed · 05/02/2021 14:46

I wouldn’t drink if I was in sole charge of my DC during the day - no way , not ever.

I also certainly wouldn’t sit and sip gin in their room whilst they were playing.

And I love a bottle of wine at the weekend so I’m not averse to alchohol but there is a time and a place and the playroom on a Friday afternoon is not it.

LaceyBetty · 05/02/2021 14:46

Thank you, I am. Sadly not in the garden. Sat in my kid's room watching him play

I am a pretty big drinker by MN's standards (and the government guidelines) but this isn't ideal at 2:30 in the afternoon.

namechangefail2020 · 05/02/2021 14:53

I'm waiting until 430 when I will be still be in sole charge of my kids but they'll be eating dinner and I'll be sat watching (painful). Seriously 1 gin isn't putting kids at risk! Lols to MN

Christmasfairy2020 · 05/02/2021 14:54

Errr have a coffee and a biscuit.

Crunchymum · 05/02/2021 14:55

Are you alright @billiondollarwhale?

No judgement.

LaceyBetty · 05/02/2021 14:57

@namechangefail2020

I'm waiting until 430 when I will be still be in sole charge of my kids but they'll be eating dinner and I'll be sat watching (painful). Seriously 1 gin isn't putting kids at risk! Lols to MN
I drink around my kids when I am the sole adult in the house and also do so when they are eating dinner, but you can't say that is not quite different from sitting in a child's bedroom at 2:30 with a gin. Not sure why, TBF, but I think it is.
Fuckingcrustybread · 05/02/2021 14:57

You've started this thread to ask the question so I think you know that it is a bit early.

namechangefail2020 · 05/02/2021 14:59

@LaceyBetty I genuinely don't see a difference as if you were out for a Sunday roast, same time of day

RubyWooRed · 05/02/2021 15:08

[quote namechangefail2020]@LaceyBetty I genuinely don't see a difference as if you were out for a Sunday roast, same time of day [/quote]
I think it’s different because if I was out for a Sunday roast at a pub then DH would be driving and I’d have a glass of wine with lunch no problem. Because that’s what you do in a restaurant...

Not in a child’s bedroom.

billiondollarwhale · 05/02/2021 15:08

Must be judgemental hour on here 🤣

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Cheersdickie · 05/02/2021 15:09

I’m in the bath with a glass of wine. Wonderful

billiondollarwhale · 05/02/2021 15:16

I'm not 'sole carer' either. My husband is here.

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billiondollarwhale · 05/02/2021 15:17

So, garden ok? Bedroom bad?

What are these odd rules?

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Marinaloves · 05/02/2021 15:25

Mumsnet rules!!!
Or Batshit made up crap in real life

Marinaloves · 05/02/2021 15:26

FYI I’m drinking a gin too.
Whilst working
Shock
Horror

Jeds55 · 05/02/2021 15:28

Some people do have such odd rules around drinking alcohol. Always makes me laugh to remember when a friend commented that drinking cans of lager in the park is really common but happily sat there drinking a bottle of lager herself!

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