[quote Suamino]@cantmakealifeofit
WTF? How is any of what I said “patronising?” Do you understand the meaning of the word? I was speaking metaphorically about the reasons why he appealed to the nation’s sensibilities on a collective level. If you read about Nick Knowles’ comments re; the psychology of the collective unconscious he got it spot on.
Heroes are born in times of crisis and elevated into figures that others can look up to. He did appeal to many in a fatherly manner with his words of comfort. I never said he wasn’t an actual father to his children! I can’t believe you read that from my post. How weird.
Some people on MN seem determined to get offended by........literally nothing[/quote]
I cringed at what you said also. Nick Knowles' comments either grab you, or they don't. I don't think he's spot on and he's not known as a great philosopher.
Some people latch on to other people and elevate them to hero status. We (in the UK) do that all the time. We build people up because we enjoy knocking them down again. That's how reality TV works for so many.
This is a time of crisis, many people have died who shouldn't have - and that's what makes the hero worshipping of a PR-driven, kindly elderly man who also happens to have died at the good age of 100, a bit much.
I don't much like the phrase 'read the room' but it is apt and you'd have to be abnormally tone deaf to post what you did and be surprised that some posters didn't respond positively to your flowery words as you'd imagined everybody would.
Many people are sick and tired of the hysterical fawning. I'm quite partial to David Attenborough but I sincerely hope he's had his jab and is mainlining his vit D because, if this board is anything like it has been over Mr Tom then it's going to be unbearable.
Mr Tom; loved by friends and family, achieved extraordinary and determined celebrity, lived a long time and he'll be missed by those who knew him and, for a short time, by those who said they did.
Perhaps the minute's silence should be extended to typing... and go on for longer?