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Drugs. Be honest..

737 replies

Trivialpursuitofhappiness · 25/01/2021 18:44

Inspired by the white bag thread, it just got me curious. I’m not a journo! Although, I suppose that’s what a journalist would say.. Grin

Have you / do you take drugs? What did you take and why did you?

I’ll be honest and go first, I occassinally use MDMA and I do use coke on nights. But I don’t have kids and I’d stop as soon as I was having them

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PoleToPole · 26/01/2021 12:47

@MacDuffsMuff I completely agree.

As for the this would be solved if we legalised it brigade, putting all the other pitfalls and the fact that they are far too simplistic views aside, you could say that about almost anything. The Worlds overpopulation problems would be solved if we colonised other planets, but that isnt happening currently either so they are equally irrelevant Hmm.

HibernatingTill2030 · 26/01/2021 12:47

Depends on which drugs obviously. Not all drugs are equal. There are good arguments for legalizing certain drugs but as the situation is now if you use certain drugs you are clearly extremely cold hearted

The drug trade is pretty horrific for all drugs, though. Even Cannibis dealers use human trafficking/slavery and county lines.
I'm not perfect. I've smoked weed in the past. I even enjoyed it. But knowing now the human misery that comes behind it... wouldn't touch it again with a bargepole unless it was legalised.

Alcohol might cause untold damage in society, but at least the production doesn't rely on all kinds of underworld misery as well.

Chanjer · 26/01/2021 12:48

You get ethical drug shoppers in the same way you get ethical supermarket shoppers

It heavily limits your options though obviously cos most of the industry is horrific

HibernatingTill2030 · 26/01/2021 12:48

@GeidiPrimes

Interesting fact - before drugs legislation happened in the 70s, there were about 500 registered addicts in the UK. 50 years after the 'war on drugs began we now have 10,000+.
There were probably a lot more who weren't registered though.
Chanjer · 26/01/2021 12:49

It's never been easier to buy weed outside of major distribution ime

HibernatingTill2030 · 26/01/2021 12:49

@Chanjer

You get ethical drug shoppers in the same way you get ethical supermarket shoppers

It heavily limits your options though obviously cos most of the industry is horrific

I don't know any of it can be ethical unless you grow or make your own though?
Oileo · 26/01/2021 12:52

Since children, no. Before- occasionally but not regularly

Ridingthegravytrain · 26/01/2021 12:52

Not for donkeys years. Used to take speed mainly and the odd bit of coke or weed.

Had mdma for the first time at university and it was horrendous. Messed with my brain, never been quite right since (caused panic and mood changes) never touched them again.

Oileo · 26/01/2021 12:54

Tbh I was more out off by the impact of drugs on others once I grew up. The teenagers on risky streets, communities in other countries. I couldn’t enjoy them anymore.

frogswimming · 26/01/2021 12:55

No.

Yohoheaveho · 26/01/2021 12:55

If we colonized other planets
the difficulties involved with legalising drugs are comparable to those involved with colonizing other planets 😲
That's quite a leap isn't it 🤣🤭

TrulyOutrageousJem · 26/01/2021 12:57

I took them when I was younger and still would now but I wouldn’t even know how to get any these days. I could take a pill and dance the night away, happy and still very functional... I don’t get that feeling with alcohol.

PoleToPole · 26/01/2021 13:00

You get ethical drug shoppers in the same way you get ethical supermarket shoppers

There is no way of ethically shopping for illegal drugs, sure, they might tell you there are, but people cannot honestly believe that rubbish, its just another way of absolving their guilty consciences when they put their own pleasure and self interest first.

As HibernatingTill2030 says, unless you make, grow your own or harvest from the wild it cannot be ethical, and if you are doing it that way you are not a "shopper".

emmetgirl · 26/01/2021 13:01

I'm a recovering alcoholic. If I took drugs too I'd be dead by now.

PoleToPole · 26/01/2021 13:04

The difficulties involved with legalising drugs are comparable to those involved with colonizing other planets 😲
That's quite a leap isn't it

Yes, thats why it would pay you not to misquote me. I said that neither were happening currently, and so bleating that the oppression and abuse would stop if drugs were legalised is as irrelevant, because they arent legal.

shitinmyhandsandclap · 26/01/2021 13:04

Nope, never tried anything, I've got better things to spend my money on. Don't drink either, don't like the taste. Now ex DP was a heavy cannabis user, turned him into a zombie which is why he's now an ex

MacDuffsMuff · 26/01/2021 13:07

@allsqueekums When you say no regrets, do you really mean that? That sounds such an inflammatory question and I'm trying to find a way of writing this so that it doesn't (genuinely). What I'm asking is that given that you know the journey that drugs go through and the people (many young and vulnerable) hurt and damaged along the way, do you really honestly not feel regretful? I feel like I should put a smiley face or something to show that I'm not digging at you or being a cow, I just genuinely want to know.

sbhydrogen · 26/01/2021 13:14

Weed, hash, ketamine, mushrooms and cocaine. All extremely occasionally (think once or twice each). It was fun, but I'm not fussed about them. Would rather enjoy a nice bottle of wine!

PoleToPole · 26/01/2021 13:15

Im a surgeon, I frequently treat victims of the drug trade, trying to patch them up, trying to heal them, seeing first hand the horrific damage, injuries, abuse and deaths. Those are the ones who come into us with at least a chance, they are the few. Most dont make it that far. If people saw that with their own eyes, day after day I highly doubt the vast majority would still be as flippant about taking illegal drugs for their fun and damn the consequences.

Yohoheaveho · 26/01/2021 13:15

misquote me. I said that neither were happening currently, and so bleating
Pray forgive me pretty please 🙏 my bleating🐑 and misquoting

HippoOnMyRoofEatingCake · 26/01/2021 13:21

@PoleToPole

I`m a surgeon, I frequently treat victims of the drug trade, trying to patch them up, trying to heal them, seeing first hand the horrific damage, injuries, abuse and deaths. Those are the ones who come into us with at least a chance, they are the few. Most don`t make it that far. If people saw that with their own eyes, day after day I highly doubt the vast majority would still be as flippant about taking illegal drugs for their fun and damn the consequences.
TBF there are a great many injustices in the world that would likely cause people to change if they actually saw the consequences of their behaviour on a daily basis. Cognitive dissonance is a powerful thing
toconclude · 26/01/2021 13:23

I like my brain chemistry just the way it is, thanks. So, no.

PoleToPole · 26/01/2021 13:29

Yes indeed HippoOnMyRoofEatingCake, and we should all be questioning our own behaviour and adjusting it when necessary.

MrsDThomas · 26/01/2021 13:39

No. Never have never seen the attraction.

Why the fuck for?

MadamFlutterby · 26/01/2021 13:41

No. Never taken drugs. Ever.

Why? Because I was never curious and also because I could never take something that I didn't know exactly what it contained - these drugs are unregulated, often manufactured in questionable places with questionable hygiene and by people who really couldn't give a toss what added ingredient they sling into the mix - ground glass etc.

The Daniel Spargo case is desperately sad.

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