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To be annoyed by people who claim they live in a different area due to snobbery reasons?

312 replies

Rosehip10 · 25/12/2020 09:09

Why do people do this? Are they so insecure they have to pretend they are somewhere else?

I know much of this rubbish comes from estate agents, but some people seem to take it to heart......

Two classic examples from people I know.....

1.) "I live in North West Hampstead" (They live in Cricklewood)

2.) "I'm on Farnham Borders" (They live in Aldershot)

Ridiculous.

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Pipandmum · 25/12/2020 09:13

But as old as time.

IcyApril · 25/12/2020 09:13

I’ve lived close to both the places and find it really funny. The last I saw was ‘North Maida Vale’ for the bottom of end of Kilburn High Road.

IcyApril · 25/12/2020 09:14

*these places

Snowy0w1 · 25/12/2020 09:18

I was in Kilburn a few times when I had a lovely boyfriend in my 20s who lived there. It looked the same as Maida Vale. Same type of houses.

Rosehip10 · 25/12/2020 09:19

Blackheath also seems to have strange borders when estate agents are involved.

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StillGardening · 25/12/2020 09:19

I’ve got reverse. Live in a village considered snobby by the local small town. So if anyone asks , always say live in the small town 😁

Youngatheart00 · 25/12/2020 09:20

I think the estate agents are partially to blame for this!!

EssentialHummus · 25/12/2020 09:23

Yup. I live in a bit of New Cross that 5,000 people have decided is its own separate enclave.

Rosehip10 · 25/12/2020 09:28

@EssentialHummus "Telegraph Hill"?

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EssentialHummus · 25/12/2020 09:30

That’s the one! Grin There’s a whole other thing about the various local conservation areas but I haven’t had enough to drink yet to get into it.

AcornAutumn · 25/12/2020 09:30

@Snowy0w1

I was in Kilburn a few times when I had a lovely boyfriend in my 20s who lived there. It looked the same as Maida Vale. Same type of houses.
Blimey

I have never seen any street in Kilburn that looks remotely like Maida Vale!

Yes, OP, a whole area near mum was renamed for estate agents purposes I guess. It’s annoying because you think it’s walkable but it’s not!

Bear65 · 25/12/2020 09:46

Haha, this made me laugh @EssentialHummus! We live around here too and I always enjoy the 'Are you from the Hill' type comments Grin

SkedaddIe · 25/12/2020 09:53

I find it funny that friends now live in Peckham when it used to be Dulwich. (It's always been Peckham)

SkedaddIe · 25/12/2020 09:54

@Bear65

Haha, this made me laugh *@EssentialHummus*! We live around here too and I always enjoy the 'Are you from the Hill' type comments Grin
I blame the farmers market. It should be banned.
Foxyloxy1plus1 · 25/12/2020 09:56

Maybe because people can be so rude about places, even when they’ve never been to them and know nothing about them. It happens to us all the time.

Chocrock · 25/12/2020 09:56

How big is Notting Hill - everyone in west London seems to live there!

BlackLambAndGreyFalcoln · 25/12/2020 09:58

@Rosehip10

Blackheath also seems to have strange borders when estate agents are involved.
SE3 is a large postcode area though. I live on KPR and as our political ward is "Blackheath Wetscombe" I've always said that we live in Blackheath, but not in the village IYSWIM.
Rosehip10 · 25/12/2020 10:00

@BlackLambAndGreyFalcoln Yep, but for estate agents and some people "Blackheath" is used to make people assume the village area!

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HundredMilesAnHour · 25/12/2020 10:01

I live in the most north-west part of Whitechapel. Hence I say I live in Whitechapel.

However, estate agents (and pretentious people) insist it's Shoreditch. Some call it Spitalfields. It's not. Or Brick Lane. It's also not. At which point I usually snigger and I say I live in "Whitechapel village". Grin

thedevilinablackdress · 25/12/2020 10:02

Meh. It's low on the scale of things that annoy me. Mildly amusing on occasion. And definitely fueled by estate agents.

roses2 · 25/12/2020 10:03

@IcyApril

I’ve lived close to both the places and find it really funny. The last I saw was ‘North Maida Vale’ for the bottom of end of Kilburn High Road.
Whenever I call builders for a quote I tell them I live in Kilburn whereas I'm actually at the posh end in Queens Park Grin
opinionatedfreak · 25/12/2020 10:17

Been going on for years... I always say I live where I do (it’s a pretty typical central London location million pounds plus flats next to ex- local authority ones) which led to one of my colleagues (who is pretty blunt) coming round and exclaiming.

“Wow, it’s actually quite nice in here I thought it would be a shit hole...”

Xmas Shock
Greenandcabbagelooking · 25/12/2020 10:22

I changed where I lived based on who I was talking to and the impression I wanted to give.

"I live in Dulwich" - I am a proper adult living in a calm family area.
"I live in Crystal Palace" - I am a young person in a flatshare
"I live in the weird bit that's not really Dulwich, CP, or even Gipsy Hill" - the truth.

BeakyWinder · 25/12/2020 10:30

My area is terrible for this. The main town is a permanent fixture in the top 5 worst place to live, but surrounded by several naice villages. Nobody will admit to being associated with crap town. We recently moved to justtt over the invisible border (literally the other side of a mini roundabout from naice village) to upgrade our house massively and DPs mum said "lovely house but it's just such a shame where it is) nutter.

BikeRunSki · 25/12/2020 10:31

I grew up on S London. People used to talk about "St Reatham" and "St Ockwell" (Streatham and Stockwell) - do they still do that. DM used to say we lived in Clapham Common. We didn't. It was close, but not close enough to claim it as our address, especially since we lived in SW11/Wandsworth. We weren't even "betweenn the commons". We were Battersea, but I guess DM didn't want her sensibilities offended by associations with the power station and dogs' home.