@TellitToTheStars
Eh? I've assumed no such thing! To people who don't believe in god, telling them that their illness is pre determined by god or is awful but will be made up for by eternity with god doesn't help them at all. Because they don't believe in him.
I'm sorry you've had difficulties too, genuinely. I have sympathy and empathy for anyone who has struggled. I just don't wish to believe in a god who would have given me (and other people) the hand I was dealt or who takes credit for how I have overcome the hand I was dealt.
Me overcoming that hand is down to my determination, my sheer luck of having some amazing people close to me and the fact that modern science means I have medication to help me stay well. I don't have to attribute those things to god because I don't believe in him.
That isn't out of anger at my lot. Far from it - it's more at the audacity of people (I'm not saying you) who attribute me getting better to a deity I don't believe in, but they say is all powerful so presumably dealt me that lot.
He is a figure for many, it seems, who is credited for all recoveries where mankind is blamed for all illnesses. That allocation of blame and praise is nonsensical to non believers like me, because we work on the basis of science, logic, probabilities and proof.
Saying 'wow just wow' as if I attacked you or minimised anything you've gone through is hurtful to be honest, as I have done no such thing and could not possibly have known what you've been through personally.