To ask do you still kiss with tongues?

[Bananawho]

I have been with my DH a while
And recently realized we dont do it anymore except in bed
I miss it and dont know why it stops in long relationships

Yes. I'm 46 and she's 50.

Yeah weird that actually. I love proper kissing and we do still during sex, but nowadays actually rarely day-to-day. I think I’m gonna have to bring it back!

Nope. Don’t fancy it anymore. Apart from sex.

@TomorrowsPrincess

"Ew no! It's very sexual to me, I only do it during sex and during the build up to^ sex."

Wtf? So it's 'ew' until your both naked and screwing??
It's kissing for gods sake...... nothing "ew" about it..... it's sensual and sexy and those that don't like it clearly haven't been kissed properly!
I proper snog should be giving you fanny flutters and weak knees 😍😍😍^

Um that's my point. It does turn us on so it just feels weird to do it standalone. To me it's like fondling or something.. it's foreplay not passion.

To be fair, I should have realised that the OP says "do you still kiss with tongues". Well I've never been into snogging unless I'm getting someone turned on so it's never been something I would just do.

I have been kissed properly thanks my partner is a very good lover. Plenty of sex even nearly 8 years and 3 kids in. Just don't snog in the middle of the day, but then I'm kind of traumatised by a relatives very erm, full on PDAS with their partner and it just isn't something I do. No judgement to those who enjoy it without going all the way!

We don't even kiss in ANY scenario and can't even remember last time we had sex

He's a very heavy smoker and doesn't "do" brushing teeth so his breath is rank

I’ve met someone who’s not a big kisser but is very cuddly reading this thread has made me feel sad cos I actually love kissing

Yes!

For me it depends how he approaches me.
If for instance he ever (he doesn’t!) just stuck his whole tongue in like he was cleaning out the rest of a yogurt pot, then urgh, no way Jose...
What he does, and what I looooove, is that deep eye to eye contact, and gentle caressing of my face and neck first.. that is to me an invitation to be more than receptive... even if it doesn’t lead to the inevitable.... I agree with pp that its not just about the tongue. It can be lips or anything that your partner has learned that will please you.
I get that it can be frustrating to have a tongue type passionate kiss that can’t then be followed up immediately, but for me that just makes me even more passionate for when we can “get it on”.
I’d like to say a huge well done to the OP who was brave enough to be honest with her OH... obviously he had either been missing it too, or was not initiating it coz he thought she was too tired/busy/or just not into it anymore and was trying to be considerate.
I really hope this thread inspires more of us (male or female) to revisit the whole practice of trying it again, admitting that you miss it, and if you don’t miss it, try a different method
To me, unless a french kiss tickles my fanny want, it ain’t being done properly.
xxxxx🤪

@SweetCruciferous
good luck!
post any success stories here haha

@Bananawho

Fresh reports as and when

Only if I'm after sex or we're having sex. We have different ways of being intimate now and there's not that sexual tension there was.

@Rawmum30
thank you!
unless a French kiss tickles my fanny want, it ain’t being done properly.xxxxx🤪 lol!
your are right there's nothing quite like a good old fashioned snog!

Sounds like you've lost the passion for each other really early in your marriage. You might want to do something about it now so you don't become roommates after 10 years!

@Jobsharenightmare
please read a couple pages back
problem solved!

[quote TomorrowsPrincess]@Bananawho
Yes girrrllll!!
You go get them snogs! 💋

Seriously, anyone who isn't kissed passionately with a bit of tongue is missing out.
I love just looking at my DP and wanting to snog his face off (together 7years, 5 kids although only 3 at home)
....... think I might just go snog his face right now! 😉 [/quote]
@TomorrowsPrincess
thank you I am!💋💋💋
I'm happy you understand how important kissing with tongues can be!
have fun with your DP!

@SweetCruciferous
any luck?

just thought Id come back to say that everything is great now on the snogging front!
Me and DH have had a romantic smooch everyday
and how are things with your DH @SweetCruciferous?
I really want someone to try that article from earlier and see if it works for them!