To ask do you still kiss with tongues?

[Bananawho]

I have been with my DH a while
And recently realized we dont do it anymore except in bed
I miss it and dont know why it stops in long relationships

@sanityisamyth sounds like good riddance if you dont mind me saying so
I couldn't stomach that

I haven't snogged properly since I was a teenager.

Only while getting jiggy.

@LubaLuca that's a shame
What happened?

Afraid so! Not always mega long sessions, but yeah we kiss with tongues multiple times a day!

The worst part of this situation is he was actually a great kisser and I really miss our snogs avec tongues
😔

@SomewhereInbetween1
I'm so jealous rn
Want to swap husbands?

We’ve been together 8 years and kiss with tongues most days

@SomewhereInbetween1 seriously tho
How do you maintain that kind of passion?
Is it just being married to someone who loves a quick snog sesh as much as u do?

No... But then neither of us have ever particularly liked it.

[quote Bananawho]@LubaLuca that's a shame
What happened?[/quote]
Not a shame, I just didn't fancy it any more . I did plenty of snogging in my youth, but it never felt right in a relationship (and I've been in the same one since the 90s ).

Oh god I love snogging.
But I like lips stroking and maybe a nibble and passion and caressing. For me, it's all in the lips. Changes in pressure and position.
Tongues might occasionally dart in and out, but that isn't the main events.

During sex it gets a little more tonguey.

But I hate wide open mouth, stick tongue in and waggle it around technique. I find it really off-putting.

All about the lips.

So it depends what you mean really.

Closed lipped pecks don't cut it. At all.

proper snog should be giving you fanny flutters

Which is why many couples with kids are doing it all the time. Because it can be a big turn on, you can't often drop everything and have sex (in fact if you have young kids and are working a lot, you probably are doing well to have sex once a week). So most people don't like being turned on and left all unsatisfied and distracted when they've got to get a killer stain out of little Bobby's school uniform and the cats been sick on the stairs and the toddlers out of bed like a jack in a box.

AREN'T snogging all the time I mean

Yes. It normally leads to sex but then most interactions do.

Together 20 years and kiss several times daily. Usually one of us will progress it to a full tonguey one at least once during the day.

It’s lovely.

Also part of foreplay and sex for us.

@maudspellbody

Oh god I love snogging. But I like lips stroking and maybe a nibble and passion and caressing. For me, it's all in the lips. Changes in pressure and position. Tongues might occasionally dart in and out, but that isn't the main events.

During sex it gets a little more tonguey.

But I hate wide open mouth, stick tongue in and waggle it around technique. I find it really off-putting.

All about the lips.

So it depends what you mean really.

Closed lipped pecks don't cut it. At all.

@maudspellbody nice reply very descriptive Second Best kissing advice I ever heard was use tongue like a spice it's not the main event like you said. I like a romantic smooch with just the lips as well sometimes I like a light darting tongue kiss but right now I am craving a proper open mouth passionate French snog to make me melt I'll snog anyone at this point

@Allthequalitystreet
Very specific answer i hope you're not speaking from experience
But good explanation
Some people in the thread are managing it tho I'm not sure how
I dont think any parent should have to miss out on a snog that's like the bare minimum

@BunnyMacDougal
You are living the dream dont take it for granted
Tongue kisses are luvverly

Loved it so much as a teen and did a lot of it 🙄now, the thought of it makes me cringe. However, if I see a really good, passionate kiss on tv etc, I feel a bit sad as it’s been so long to feel that real sexual attraction/romance feeling.

@Thehogfatherstolemycurry
See thats impressed me
how so you manage keeping the passion after 16 years

We love each other a lot, I still really fancy him, we both enjoy a snog. We've always been very tactile, we hold hands sat on the couch and cuddle often, we value each other and take time to do nice little things for each other often. He's 50 and I'm nearly the same, he's my 2nd husband and I realize people and relationships need to be cherished.
I sound dead soppy now haha!

@Nomoreboobs
I was a keen snogger in my youth
Must have snogged half my uni lol
I understand what you mean about passionate kisses on tv i wish my DH did

[quote Thehogfatherstolemycurry]@Thehogfatherstolemycurry
See thats impressed me
how so you manage keeping the passion after 16 years

We love each other a lot, I still really fancy him, we both enjoy a snog. We've always been very tactile, we hold hands sat on the couch and cuddle often, we value each other and take time to do nice little things for each other often. He's 50 and I'm nearly the same, he's my 2nd husband and I realize people and relationships need to be cherished.
I sound dead soppy now haha![/quote]
Doesn't sound soppy sounds lovely and romantic
Ps great username btw

If this thread has taught me anything it's that I
Am unlucky to not still be french kissing
And I need to get DH to love tongues as much as me

Just tried to do it with my husband and he resisted it and said he couldn't breathe. We used to all the time :(