To ask do you still kiss with tongues?

[Bananawho]

I have been with my DH a while
And recently realized we dont do it anymore except in bed
I miss it and dont know why it stops in long relationships

Sorry for my crappy grammar everyone i am stuck on my phone while my laptop plays up

I read a nice article where a woman in the same situation gave her husband a french kiss daily for a week to get that part of their relationship back and it worked so I may have to try that

6 years in and yup, still kiss with tongues multiple times a day. There's never an expectation that it will definitely lead to sex, we just like kissing 😂

God no, it’s been years.

Ug no I don't.

Only during foreplay or sex. But then it's not really something I want to do unless I'm horney. We've been together 13 years and have two kids. When I think about it, we only really have a quick peck on the lips unless we are about to have sex/having sex. Plenty of spark and passion in our relationship though, I guess we just aren't snoggy people 😂

@SomewhereInbetween1
Lucky bugger!
I love kissing too
But surely you aren't frenching multiple times a day?

It just leads to sex with us, always has! Even if out, it's almost a 'well both know where this is heading'.... Fine in the pre DS days when I had plenty of time and inclination, not so much now. Plenty of kissing, sofa cuddles etc, but not sure I can imagine full on passionate snogging then, do you want a cuppa? 😁

Here is the article btw

cafemom.com/lifestyle/215306-french-kissed-husband-for-a-week

Only when being intimate. Married 41 years.

@KarlKennedysDurianFruit
Is it something you miss tho
Or can you leave it?

Nope, not in any situation. Never liked it.

@Bananawho I'd be more miffed with lots of passionate kissing not followed by sex

I avoided kissing my now ex-husband at all costs as he'd go weeks without brushing his teeth 🤢🤮🤢 which was a shame as I love kissing!!

@MaryShelley1818

Love it and still always do it. Not just in passing but still often and not only when we're initiating sex. Been together 4.5yrs (but known each other over 20yrs), married for 2yrs, have a toddler and I'm heavily pregnant.

4 years Children Pregnant And not just before sex as well Please tell me What is your secret?

Yes when DTD

Apparently to boost your anti-stress feelings you need to kiss for at least 6 seconds (or a 20+ second hug)

Yes

@sanityisamyth

I avoided kissing my now ex-husband at all costs as he'd go weeks without brushing his teeth 🤢🤮🤢 which was a shame as I love kissing!!

@sanityisamyth Sorry but weeks without brushing is disgusting 🤢🤮 What if you said"oi brush your damn teeth I wanna snog you" what bloke wont run the bathroom instantly lol?

It really was!! He lost quite a few teeth because of it. Hygiene wasn't high on his list of priorities. He'd shower about as frequently as well! There are many reasons he's an ex ...

"Ew no! It's very sexual to me, I only do it during sex and during the build up to^ sex."

Wtf? So it's 'ew' until your both naked and screwing??
It's kissing for gods sake...... nothing "ew" about it..... it's sensual and sexy and those that don't like it clearly haven't been kissed properly!
I proper snog should be giving you fanny flutters and weak knees 😍😍😍^

Yes and love it!

@TomorrowsPrincess

"Ew no! It's very sexual to me, I only do it during sex and during the build up to^ sex."

Wtf? So it's 'ew' until your both naked and screwing??
It's kissing for gods sake...... nothing "ew" about it..... it's sensual and sexy and those that don't like it clearly haven't been kissed properly!
I proper snog should be giving you fanny flutters and weak knees 😍😍😍^

🙏🙏🙏 I 100% agree with you I miss my days of snogging in clubs I lurvved being complimented on my kissing skills as well

Yes but only as part of foreplay / sex

We've been together 12 years

@MaryShelley1818
Still waiting for that secret lol