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AIBU to spend £40 on take away?

139 replies

Nobeautysleep · 28/11/2020 16:42

I fancy Chinese takeaway...

DH hates Chinese takeaway, prefers Indian, and so if we had takeaway we’d end up ordering from 2 places. But this means it would cost nearly £40 which seems excessive for takeaway? It would be closer to £30 if we both ordered from the same place with discounts/less delivery fee but then that means I’d have to have Indians not Chinese.

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Aragog · 28/11/2020 18:07

If you can afford it, do it.

We spent £30 a head on a 'posh' take away last night - you even have to warm done if it up yourself. It was delicious though so worth every penny!

MissDoLots · 28/11/2020 18:11

We do that for pizza here ! I love Papa John's and my DC love Domino's.

So we get both.

ShirleyPhallus · 28/11/2020 18:13

@BarbaraofSeville

^£18 for two adults and leftovers for lunch??

That must be 1-2 meat dishes with one side and some prawn crackers^

Er no, king prawn curry, massive pot of special chow mein, chips, fried rice, two huge pancake rolls and prawn crackers.

A main is £5-6 including rice or chips, sides are a couple of quid each and the prawn crackers are free if you spend over £15.

Wow that’s super cheap compared to where we are. But that would also only be one main course in our Chinese and the rest sides.
80sColourfulChristmas · 28/11/2020 18:14

@Proudboomer

I order a home delivery most weekends. Last week it was Chinese so this week it is Indian. Chinese week comes to around £30 and Indian less at £20. Indian is always less as I only eat vegetarian when having Indian but Chinese I have ribs and other meat dishes.
Why will you eat meat from Chinese but not the Indian?!
starsparkle08 · 28/11/2020 18:14

It’s a lot of money to me - but if you can afford it go for it

80sColourfulChristmas · 28/11/2020 18:15

@LH1987

We generally spend 50 on a Chinese and have the leftovers for lunch (for two). Do it! 😀
Shock FIFTY BRITISH POUNDS?!?!?!
SunshineCake · 28/11/2020 18:16

Why would you have to have what your husband wants if you are only going to one place ?

MadisonAvenue · 28/11/2020 18:18

We had a takeaway from a local restaurant a few weeks ago, for the four of us (our sons are adults) it came to £58 and that was four starters and four mains. It was really lovely so worth every penny.

If we have Chinese for the four of us it’s usually just under £40 for five or six mains, a couple of containers of rice and garlic and chilli chips. They send a free bag of prawn crackers.

IntermittentParps · 28/11/2020 18:22

I'd just be worried about them arriving ages apart.

PawPawNoodle · 28/11/2020 18:22

@SimonJT that looks like a Genesis order to me

Daisy829 · 28/11/2020 18:23

In the past, we have been known to go to kfc for the chicken then McDonald’s for chips as we prefer their fries 😂
I’ve gone Chinese. Can’t wait. Wine poured & watching a bit of the crown before I walk round for it.

ShirleyPhallus · 28/11/2020 18:24

Why will you eat meat from Chinese but not the Indian?!

I prefer veggie dishes from the Indian too - all those potato / cauliflower / chickpea / paneer combos are much more delicious than anything meaty

NatashaAlianovaRomanova · 28/11/2020 18:26

How expensive is your Chinese??? £20 for one meal is extortionate!

We're having honey bbq chicken, chicken curry, fried rice, chips, mini spring rolls & banana fritters delivered & it's only cost £23

Wish it would bloody hurry up cause I'm starving

SimonJT · 28/11/2020 18:26

[quote PolPotNoodle]@SimonJT that looks like a Genesis order to me[/quote]
Thats where we would usually go, genesis would be cheaper but its shut ☹️

BernadetteRostankowskiWolowitz · 28/11/2020 18:26

Our Chinese is usually £23-24. Two mains, prawn toast, rice and chips and delivery.

BarbaraofSeville · 28/11/2020 18:28

Shirley there's loads of meat, prawns and veg in the noodle dish, and it comes in a large container, it's definitely a main.

I agree about Indian vegetarian food being much nicer than the meat dishes.

Proudboomer · 28/11/2020 18:30

80sColourfulChristmas it is just what I prefer as there as so many Indian veg dishes that don’t need meat to taste great but with Chinese you need spare ribs and Peking duck.

cyclingmad · 28/11/2020 18:30

Being Indian i cannot do Indian take aways or Indian ready meals...too much oil, same spices used and like only 4 tiny pieces of meat. Bleurgh.

Chinese for me

Nobeautysleep · 28/11/2020 18:31

@NatashaAlianovaRomanova

How expensive is your Chinese??? £20 for one meal is extortionate!

We're having honey bbq chicken, chicken curry, fried rice, chips, mini spring rolls & banana fritters delivered & it's only cost £23

Wish it would bloody hurry up cause I'm starving

Chinese was £17, min order of £15 plus £2 delivery. So that was crispy beef, rice, mini spring rolls, chips and prawn crackers. Only decent Chinese takeaway around here hence the price!

Indian was £23 so that was vindaloo, pilau rice, naan, pickles. £3 delivery. This was from a local restaurant, which we love but we’ll be tier 3 next week so still not able to open.

We had to pay the delivery as awaiting covid results.

@SunshineCake I wouldn’t have to have what my husband wanted, there’s plenty of Indian curries I like but if we were only going to one it’d be Indian as he doesn’t like Chinese food at all.

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mummytonicekidz · 28/11/2020 18:32

Do as you wish as long as you can afford it

burnoutbabe · 28/11/2020 18:35

We're paying £35 for Deliveroo every few days to support local restaurants, for 2 of us.
You may as well get what you want!

earthyfire · 28/11/2020 18:36

I don't see the problem, we spend about that, but one of us usually collects instead because it is quicker.

Chamonixshoopshoop · 28/11/2020 18:37

Life is a bit shit right now, if you can afford it, enjoy it! There's not much else to enjoy!

Sorrynotsorry22 · 28/11/2020 18:45

Yes, might be excessive for 1 unless it's portion out for a few days .

NatashaAlianovaRomanova · 28/11/2020 18:46

@Nobeautysleep fair enough - enjoy... your DH's food sounds fab but DD vetoed Indian tonight.

As for delivery charges we have an amazing Indian across the road I can see it from my kitchen window & I'm sure the guy walks across with it & I pay £3 delivery so I can order for later, have a bath & be in pjs with wine before it arrives Blush