Doing this to a child is wrong

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BBC report : His said his 14-year-old daughter had not left her bedroom for four days, with meals being left outside her door, until the family learned the result was void on Thursday

This is so wrong to do to a child

Lamb shanks and jackets here

I think this is my winner right here!

Because she’s like a dog with a bone who is determined to prove that sensible teenagers who have been brought up to understand and accept that staying in your room when you have a contagious illness is just what you do...

I am like a dog with a bone, so am obliged (again) to point out that I am not talking about teenagers who accept it or volunteer for it or desire it. They are not having their liberty taken away. I am talking about those who do not accept it.

*Because she’s like a dog with a bone who is determined to prove that sensible teenagers who have been brought up to understand and accept that staying in your room when you have a contagious illness is just what you do are poor in fact abused and neglected children with hideous parents

Which is actually insulting to any of us who had properly abusive and neglectful parents*

Yes you're right and I shouldn't really respond and encourage her really. I remember the same from the mask thread. In reality my primary age dc and all their friends happily wear them and like comparing designs. Like you say, incredibly insulting to those experiencing abuse.

@ILoveYou3000

Lamb shanks and jackets here

I think this is my winner right here!

Sainsbury instant meal. All the big dinnerness you want on a Sunday but none of the effort

@flaviaritt

Because she’s like a dog with a bone who is determined to prove that sensible teenagers who have been brought up to understand and accept that staying in your room when you have a contagious illness is just what you do...

I am like a dog with a bone, so am obliged (again) to point out that I am not talking about teenagers who accept it or volunteer for it or desire it. They are not having their liberty taken away. I am talking about those who do not accept it.

And once you have a moment of experience of teenagers you’ll realise how much bollocks you spouted because you can’t make them stay in their room

Not that you’ll have that problem with your 100% compliant child

In reality my primary age dc and all their friends happily wear them and like comparing designs. Like you say, incredibly insulting to those experiencing abuse.

And again: I am not (and was not) talking about children happily wearing masks or being confined. I am talking about the abusive parents who believe they have a right to enforce those things against the will of their children.

@ILoveYou3000

Lamb shanks and jackets here

I think this is my winner right here!

Oof no, Mash or roasties with lamb shanks, always.

@flaviaritt

In reality my primary age dc and all their friends happily wear them and like comparing designs. Like you say, incredibly insulting to those experiencing abuse.

And again: I am not (and was not) talking about children happily wearing masks or being confined. I am talking about the abusive parents who believe they have a right to enforce those things against the will of their children.

But I though young kids should do things without question because their parents say so?

Lamb shanks are lovely. Big fan of almb. Now you made me think if it😂 I am putting it on a planner for the week after. Slow cooked lamb leg. Yeah. I keep the bone from it for broth. Our butcher kindly cuts it in half for me

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@midnightstar66

*Because she’s like a dog with a bone who is determined to prove that sensible teenagers who have been brought up to understand and accept that staying in your room when you have a contagious illness is just what you do are poor in fact abused and neglected children with hideous parents

Which is actually insulting to any of us who had properly abusive and neglectful parents*

Yes you're right and I shouldn't really respond and encourage her really. I remember the same from the mask thread. In reality my primary age dc and all their friends happily wear them and like comparing designs. Like you say, incredibly insulting to those experiencing abuse.

Exactly.

It’s actually hilarious that someone like me, who was starved and beaten as a child, is apparently a bad parent for expecting my children to be sensible, decent people with consideration for others, in particular their ECV sister.

That said I must have done something wrong as my teen didn’t combust in two weeks isolation and my 10yo has been in his room with D&V since Thursday and he’s not crying about exercise space or lack of liberty. In fact 10yo (and me as I’m in my room) seems to be enjoying the room service and unlimited tv time as much as the teen now he’s feeling well enough to text or shout for room service 🤔

I am like a dog with a bone, so am obliged (again) to point out that I am not talking about teenagers who accept it or volunteer for it or desire it. They are not having their liberty taken away. I am talking about those who do not accept it.

But where are all these accounts of teenagers locked in their rooms crying and banging on the doors to be released, or 5 year olds having masks held to their face? - oh wait there aren't any as you've made it up in your head!

And once you have a moment of experience of teenagers you’ll realise how much bollocks you spouted because you can’t make them stay in their room

Clearly some of you think you can, because you think it’s fine to do so. I won’t be confining my child to her room for days, so it’s unlikely to come up.

But where are all these accounts of teenagers locked in their rooms crying and banging on the doors to be released, or 5 year olds having masks held to their face? - oh wait there aren't any as you've made it up in your head!

It’s a simple hypothetical discussion about right and wrong. Is it a little abstract for you? Sorry.

@flaviaritt

In reality my primary age dc and all their friends happily wear them and like comparing designs. Like you say, incredibly insulting to those experiencing abuse.

And again: I am not (and was not) talking about children happily wearing masks or being confined. I am talking about the abusive parents who believe they have a right to enforce those things against the will of their children.

Unless that enforcement is a fastened coat?

lyralalala

You might consider that what happened to you as a child (which was disgusting) is affecting your view on what is okay now.

Anyone got any ideas where my potato peeler is hiding?

Candlelit vigil for thread who will be dying soon.

Unless that enforcement is a fastened coat?

Yes. That is for the child’s welfare and doesn’t harm them in any way.

You are vile flaviaritt.

Oof no, Mash or roasties with lamb shanks, always.

Tbf I just saw lamb 😂😂

Was nice to chat with you!

slashlover

Locking up kids is vile.

Byeeee