Regarding the 'blame' Tory voting Southerners must also wear....
Blame for what?
Many, if not the vast majority of southerners who voted Tory have done so forever. Why? Because the Tories advantage them. It is entirely in their own interests to vote for a party that entrenched their privileges, keeps their taxes low, tax-breaks their children's education; keeps their local crime levels low, sweeps their streets, incentivises buy to let.
Many of these people live in owned larger properties, in 'nice' areas, with good state schools and children they can afford to send to university. They often holiday abroad.
They also voted Leave because they read The Torygraph; and quite a few do stand to benefit financially from Leave (tho I bet quite a few are reconsidering that now the businesses that enriched them are haemorrhaging EU Labour...- the 'forrin' these voters see are these EU workers making them money, 'reliable' plumbers and half the professional staff in their local hospital).
But this is why they vote Tory. Not as a protest against someone else, but because the Tory world view chimes well with their own.
And I will reiterate, against those who say 'The North' voted Tory because they couldn't bring themselves to vote Labour'; Your enemy's enemy is not your friend.
Furthermore, of course I support anyone's right to complain, included a northern constituent who has now discovered how easily they were duped by the Tories.
As for 'What have Labour done for us over the past 10 years?' -you are somewhat overlooking how cash-starved Labour councils have been under those 10 years of Tory Rule.
There'll be far fewer Southerners regretting their vote!
FTR I forlornly voted LD.